My dad has taken some steps to prepare for his death. He’s set up a trust, a Last Will and Testament, a general power of attorney, and a health care power of attorney. I’m listed with my sister as a “Successor Trustee” in the trust, we’re shown in his will as co-executors, and in the other documents as co-attorneys, if that’s the right term.
He and my sister live in Nevada, and I live in California. The trust says that it runs under Nevada laws.
The trust refers to “Schedule 1” and “Schedule 2” which list the assets of the trust. I don’t think these exist yet. My dad seems unconcerned: he points to his Last Will and Testament that says that upon his death, the Trust is the sole beneficiary of his assets. He thinks that all we need to do is bring the trust and death certificate to the various institutions that might be involved, and that will be enough.
He has a morbid fear of lawyers and the court system - bad experience with a divorce. (Mom died many years ago, FWIW.) My dad does not want his estate to go through any probate process, no way no how.
For estate assets to be distributed after a death, is probate necessary to make things “official”? Or as stated above, is the death certificate together with the LW&T enough to get things to move along? Can the probate process can be completely avoided as things now stand?
I’ve got other questions. I suppose I could send them to the attorney who prepared the trust and other docs, but I’ve already suggested this to my dad, who thinks they’re foolish questions and that he already knows the answers. Further, I’ll admit this, the questions reflect my lack of confidence in what I’ve been told so far, but I don’t want to be undiplomatic about it - unless I need to. The attorney involved is his attorney, not mine - and I doubt she could answer my questions without involving him.
My interest is to do a good job as executor and to try to head off later problems. No, I don’t entirely trust my sibling.
Any generic recommendations? Any recommendations about how best to get recommendations?