The thing I’ve never understood about people who think that “the gay lifestyle” is a choice is this: I’m heterosexual, and I have no doubt that tomorrow I’ll wake up and still be heterosexual. I have no doubt that even if confronted with the most handsome man in the world, I won’t find him “sexy.” I never sit idly around, flipping a coin with the understanding that heads it’s, well, head, and tails, it’s, well, tail, if you see what I’m saying.
You can’t claim that others are making a choice if you can’t see yourself making it as well.
(Please keep in mind that we’re talking in black and white about something that is totally grey, anyway.)