I’m seriously not sure, which is why I put this in GQ and not GD.
It seems to be a widespread notion of people, especially on the internet, that sowing your seed and propagating the species is “all that matters in the long run”. And that doing so is in a way “winning” at evolution.
This seems overly simplistic to me for several reasons – specifically that evolution is something that takes place at a macro, not micro level. It doesn’t matter if any given individual successfully breeds, what matters is that a large enough percentage of the population breed to ensure genetic diversity over the long term.
This means that, in general, it may be best for individuals not to have offspring because it would strain resources and cause extinction or endangerment. Or it may be advantageous to produce some members that are uninterested in a mate (or even sterile) that contribute to making sure OTHERS mate (by gathering food, hunting, acting as protection, etc) depending on the circumstances. Consider a doctor that personally produces no offspring but cures infertility – they individually didn’t produce any offspring but they directly increased the ability for the species at large to produce offspring in general. This seems to describe bees and ants rather well too, supporting my suspicion.
So am I overthinking things, misinterpreting the rhetoric, or am I right to think that the notion of “spreading your genetics is all that matters in nature” is overly simplistic. Even if my view is true on a general level – does the idea hold for humans, or is the more simplistic statement closer to correct for our species?