I think I might have an even more interesting one. I got a bill in the mail with my ex-wife’s name on it. I see her about once a week so I just tossed in on a table and handed it to her the next time I saw her. When she stopped over a few days later to drop of my daughter I handed it to her and she opened it and on it was a charge for my daughter seeing her pediatrician as well as my ex seeing her own doctor. My daughter is covered by my insurance. My ex has her own insurance, her own address, a different last name…her own life.
The only thing that connected these two things is that the doctors practice under the same medical group (not the same office, just the same big medical group), so they share the billing.
I called the number on the bill and explained the situation. The person I spoke to simply explained that the my ex is the person financially responsible for my daughters medical bills (a holdover from being married, I assume). To which I replied that if that was the case, the bill should have gone to my ex, at her address (and I would have paid it). I further explained that there was no reason it should have come to me, period. (My ex’s name was at the top, with my address). I told them that if my ex and I weren’t on speaking terms, I would have just tossed it in the trash and moved on and again explained that if my ex was the one getting billed it should have gone to her house, not mine and if they had my address, it should have my name. In the five years since we’ve been apart, I’ve received plenty of bills (from that group) for my daughter, with my name at the top.
When I asked them to separate the two charges (send me the bill for my daughter, send my ex the bill for herself), she needed to get the OK from her supervisor and the dr’s office and even asked if I wanted to just pay my daughters portion of the bill. I told her I wasn’t okay with that, I had no interest in making a payment that had my ex’s name on it. I mean, what if they applied the payment to the wrong charge? What if my ex decided not to pay her portion? What if? What if?
To be fair, I’ve always gotten the bills for my daughter. I think it’s just that my daughter and my ex happened to go to the dr in the same month and the two bills combined. I’ll give them that it was an honest mistake, a fluke within the billing system. What was odd is that they really didn’t understand why I thought it was odd and wrong that I had in my hand a bill for my ex-wife’s gyno visit. All I was hoping for, after I explained the error was an ‘I’m sorry, that shouldn’t have happened, I’ll send out separate bills and update the system so it doesn’t happen again’. The second I called up and said ‘You sent a bill to my address for my ex-wife’s dr’s visit (and then explained the rest’, there shouldn’t have been an argument, I shouldn’t have had to convince them to fix it, I shouldn’t have had to explain to them why it was wrong.
FTR, I wasn’t yelling or angry, I was just very stern and played it off as “If I’m getting her bills, how do I know where my bills are going?”