Contrary to it being constantly said, the US did NOT give, sell, trade nuclear weapons to Israel. Ever.
Think about it. What do you think would have happened if the USSR had given nukes to Egypt or Syria? The West (The US, The UK and NATO) would have demanded their immediate return. At the threat of forcibly removing them themselves. In other words, starting WWIII! Remember the Cuban Missile Crisis?
Well if we had given them to Israel the Soviets would have done the same. And Europe & Britain would not have supported us. It would have weakened The US militarily (losing the support of Europe & The UK), politically (the biggest superpower getting caught violating one of its prime directives, non-proliferation), economically (an even longer total OPEC embargo), and all for what gain? None what-so-ever.
The US certainly is very pro-Israel (as we should be) and feelings like those certainly run deep. IOW I don’t doubt that Israel had a somewhat easier time acquiring some nuclear secrets from America because of a lot of diplomats, scientists, military men etc. looking the other way. But I’m sure back in the day Britain and to a lesser amount France did too. Hell, more than a few of Oppenheimer’s ‘long-hairs’ shared secrets with the freakin’ Russians!
I think the Vela flash was indeed a joint Israeli - South African nuclear bomb test. South Africa has large Uranium ore deposits, and they conclusively admitted that they indeed had built & stockpiled about a half dozen Uranium ‘gun-design’ nuclear bombs (which they destroyed when the Apartheid system collapsed). I think they traded Uranium to Israel in exchange for help in building a small nuclear arsenal. But even that isn’t saying that South Africa ‘gave’ Israel nukes!
Israel is a fully modern, Western, prosperous, democratic society that also happens to have no shortage of brilliant scientists, fiercely loyal citizens, and supportive like-minded individuals world-wide. And they also happen to be completely surrounded on all three sides by openly hostile enemies all of whom declared war on Israel literally the moment it was founded. And except for one, never ‘un-declared’ war on them (to this day).
What more likely a scenario could there be for a country being able to successfully build a homegrown nuke?
Maybe the Roswell aliens traded Israel nukes for some delicious hu-man bay-gaals & krem chiss…