A confused soon-to-be college graduate, reminds me of myself 28 years ago.
“Anybody been thru Naval Officer Candidate School, raise your hand.” (dba Fred raises his hand)
Ahh yes, Newport, RI, I remember it as if it was … 27 years ago. 112 days, pick up our gold bars, then go out & defend the American way of life.
I’ve been trying to write a perfect post for a day or 2 and folks smarter than me keep saying things better than I could so I have to start all over again. Here’s my perspective from attending Naval OCS 27 years ago, some things may have changed and may not apply to the other services. The majority of my classmates were headed to the Fleet as line officers/boat drivers as compared to Supply or Nuclear Power programs.
I understand what the **OP** is saying, I was there. But you won't be selected for OCS until you have taken the tests and had your background checked and the service decides that they **want** you because they have determined you are likely to be successful. It costs them time and money to recruit candidates; why would they send you (or anybody) who is likely to wash out? In my class of 30, 29 earned their commissions and 1 person washed out due to a bum knee.
OCS was different from college, more compressed and intense but it don't worry, your days are very organized and controlled with the focus of giving you the knowledge to be a junior officer. I had a puny Social Science General Studies degree (they needed bodies for Reagan's 600 ship Navy back then) but they taught me the 1200 lb steam cycle, celestial navigation, the nautical rules of the road, military customs & courtesies, damage control, basic seamanship and lots more. The military has the best instructors and they want you to understand what they are teaching; they may someday serve with you and their life may depend on what they taught you. Additionally, your classmates will help you and you will help them.
What you don't know and probably couldn't know is that you don't have the weight of the free world on your shoulders right out the door. They don't hand you the keys to the ship right out of OCS (there are no ship keys). After OCS and before I reported to my assigned ship, I had to attend and complete a follow-on school, in my case Surface Warfare Officer's School. Even after completing SWOS, when I reported to the USS Enterprise (CVN-65), I stood watches in Under Instruction (UI) status until I passed the qualification exams.
You will probably be a Division or Assistant Division Officer but you don't perform that in a vacuum. Your Department Head will mentor and guide (and yell) at you, your Divisional Chief will also do so, in a different manner. I found a "1 Up - 1 Down" style worked: I didn't worry about making the Commanding Officer of the ship happy, I worried about making the person one step up the ladder happy, my Department Head. My Department Head didn't care if I was happy or unhappy, all he was concerned with was the results he wanted. In the same way, I told the Divisional Chief not to worry about making the Department Head happy, his job was to keep me happy and I didn't care if he was happy or unhappy; and so on down the line. The Chain of Command works.
You will be taught the theory of leadership in various schools, you will see it and put it into practice when you get to your unit. The officers senior to you will help you, the senior enlisted will help you. Folks who have been down the road before you have the experience to help you, as you gain experience you will help others.
I saw my job as to take care of my troops, I couldn’t do what was expected of me without them. The officer’s job is mainly administrative. I had a different skill set that Seaman Schumckatelli; if he had a problem with his pay and couldn’t get it answered, it was my job to go to Disbursing and try to sort it out. When it came time to write evaluations, I wanted input from Seaman Schumckatelli’s supervisors but I determined what my input would be to my Department Head. On the other hand, I trusted my Chief’s judgment in who to assign to the watchbill. In general you want to help your stellar performers (who make you look good) and get rid of the bottom-dwellers.
The services are big organizations and ships/bases/squadrons/departments/divisions are organizations. They all have daily routines and standard operating procedures and emergency procedures. It is all interconnected, you have a job to do and depend on personnel to support you, other personnel have a job to do and depend on you - Admin Dept depends on you to submit a daily muster report, you depend on Supply Dept to fulfill your requisition for toilet paper.
I echo what has been said better than I can: Investigate the options, see what programs are available, talk to the ROTC folks if there are units on your campus, see if there is the ARCO test book in your library.
Wishing you fair winds and following seas.