Jokes, in response to moderation etc

I can’t see how any adult can tell a dead-baby joke. Even as a child, I thought they were “off”. But I don’t know any woman who hasn’t suffered traumatic miscarriage. And I know of several, including on this message board, who’ve suffered through the death of a child. I would imagine any adult telling one one of these jokes has to be male. Are all you dudes telling these jokes sure that the guy you’re telling it to hasn’t suffered such a loss?