Last night with Blonde Chick was even better. I’m sorry I don’t recall her name: my jaw became unhinged and I was stupefied by her ignorance and refusal to open her mind at all. If anything, I admired Stewart’s patience and forbearance with her.
Clue phone for those not in the know (not likely to be Dopers, but I can but try): RNs talk to patients and their families about “end of life issues” every. single. day. Doctors talk to patients about “advanced directives” (same thing) every. single. day.
Every single one of us above the age of about 35 should have AT LEAST thought about what they would and would not want done in case horrible tragedy strikes. To not do so is irresponsible. Just like adults should have wills regarding their financial affairs (but tend not to…). All that portion of the bill was saying was that docs would now get compensated for having such discussions and that they document them. It does NOT say that Grandma or Dad must choose “DNR” or “send me out to the ice floe”.
We “Do Everything” every. single. day. depending on the pt’s wishes (or family’s if the pt can no longer speak for themselves). Doing “everything” is upon occasion a great thing and all is well. All too often, though, Doing Everything results in a painful, slow death–treating the critically ill is nothing like on TV (not even House MD).
And guess what? Even knowing that things like invasive procedures, ventilators, multiple lab sticks, infections and sepsis, pain, loss of independence, and all the hazards of immobility (bedsores, deep vein thrombosis and probably resultant pulmonary embolism, muscle wasting, loss of dignity, depression, pneumonia, and possible kidney stones) can be god awful despite our attempts to prevent them, we will still Do Everything and willingly, if the pt or family so desires.
ALL that portion of the bill stipulates (from what was read last night) is that docs take more initiative than they already are (and I don’t know of many docs who don’t already do this) and keep a record of it.
She kept saying that the bill mandates this and that docs would “be punished” (lose reimbursement) if they didn’t do this. There is nothing wrong with either of those options. Keeping records of who picks what advanced directive is an excellent way of tracking trends. There is no judgement on which option you pick. And there is no penalty if you change your mind and decide later you want everything done (or nothing done). There isn’t now and there won’t be if and when this is passed.
For me, it all comes down to this: of just what is this woman (and others like her) afraid? A frank and needed conversation with her doctor? Is she pissed that her doc can get compensated for this? She made me wonder if she had ever been in a hospital or had a loved one die in one.
The ignorance is so profound and so entrenched, it’s sad. IMO, this woman fears death (as do we all) but instead of entertaining possibilities and doing what she can to decide her destiny, she is like a child with her hands pressed to her ears, shouting “lalalalalalalala; I can’t hear you!”
If this is the opposition, I’m not sure we can get this passed. It’s one thing to disagree; it’s another to refuse to engage at all. 
I plan on watching the rest of the interview after work tonight. At work today, I will likely ask at least 10 more senior citizens (and younger folks) if they have living wills or durable powers of attorney for health care etc–IOW, address end of life issues. (in same day surgery, we only go this far, unless the answer is positive, then we explore a bit more. For inpatients, this discussion goes a bit further).