Do these two phrases, “keep your own counsel” and “mind your own business” have different meanings? If they’re different, what exactly does “keep your own counsel” mean? (I know what the other one means).
I’ve been curious about this because in the places I’ve heard/read “keep your own counsel”, “mind your own business” would have also made sense.
This is how I interpret it - either
(a) don’t shout your plans to the world so nobody can meddle and thwart them,
or
(b) shut your festering gob, I don’t need your f***ing advice and I don’t want to hear it; counsel yourself, not me.
So, (b) is not so much “mind your own business” as “shut up, I didn’t ask your advice”.
I’ve never heard it used to mean anything like B. “Keep your own council,” as a couple others here have said, just means not telling anyone your plans or secrets. It doesn’t mean not talking about someone else’s. If you told someone to keep their own council, that would be advice to them to stop telling people their business. It would not mean, “do not give me unsolicited advice.”
In fact, the best way to avoid getting unsolicited advice would be to keep your own council.
Now I’m wondering if George Lucas used the phrase correctly in The Phantom Menace, when Yoda is telling Qui Gon that the Jedi, erm, Council doesn’t want Anakin trained - he cuts off the objections with, “Our own counsel we will keep”.
I usually interpret “Mind your own business” more as someone being inquisitive, not so much someone offering unwelcome unsolicited advice. (Although it might fit that context too.)