This always happens! I open a thread, head home, and the thing explodes. I apologize for my absence. :smack:
Some more details:
We’re in Davis, CA.
She started living in the apartment two months ago, most likely by an oral agreement with her cousin. She is not on the current lease.
When I skimmed the lease, I didn’t see anything regarding subletting - for or against.
She does not pay rent directly - management requires only one check per apartment. She and everyone else pays our friend W - our friend, on both the current lease and the new lease - and W pays. W is the only person who pays the rent. I doubt the landlord knows this girl exists.
From the old lease, only W is carrying over. If it makes any difference, the new lease is an entirely new document from the current one; there aren’t any amendments…
I’m pretty sure that the tenants were told about renewal but declined (most likely because only one of them were staying). In any case, this girl was notified several times over the past 6 weeks to sign the new lease, so it’s not as though she was never told her that the lease was up and that she’d need to sign the new one to stay.
W may have a made an oral agreement that this girl could stay for the summer; agreements beyond that - regarding either the duration of the stay or the amount of rent - have not been made.
As the majority of the current roomates were moving out, W asked my girlfriend and myself to move in. It was a pretty good deal, so we took up the offer.
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Now here’s why the negotiations even initiated: rent for the new lease hadn’t been decided among us yet - W simply gave us a rough estimate and said we would all get together and decide the exact numbers. W also mentioned that this girl was probably going to be hard to negotiate with. So I looked up the floorplan and simply distributed the rent evenly across the square footage. The idea - which I thought was reasonable, objective, and agreeable - was that if you use more area, you’d pay more.
We met with her yesterday to “settle on the rent.” This is the first time we’ve spoken to her. I provided a few papers with the floorplan, calculations, and price breakdowns. After saying hello, the conversation essentially went like this:
TonyF: “So, let’s work this out! I looked at the floorplan of the apartment, took the square footage, and divided the rent equally among that area-”
Girl: “I see. Well, I made an agreement with my cousin when I moved in that this would be the rent I am paying.”
TonyF’s Girlfriend, Penchan: “Err, but he didn’t discuss this with us, and we’re going to be your roomates next year - not him.”
Girl: “But I chose this apartment because of the rent he promised me. And I don’t think changing the rent is fair. I don’t understand why it should change anyway.”
TonyF: “Well, you know, the lease will be new, and we’re new roomates and all…”
Girl: “It seems like you want to change my rent based on what I am paying - it’s not fair to change the rent because of what other people are paying, is it?”
TonyF: “It’s not like that - I mean, what I calculated is based on how much area you’re using, so if you use more, you pay more. That’s pretty objective, I think. Now, my original calculations were for <price>, but that includes your bathroom. But I don’t think it’s fair to include that when you won’t be using ours, so the other price is <lower price>.”
Girl: “But, I chose this apartment because it met my criteria of price and what was in it.”
Penchan: “I don’t mean to be rude, but you could move to one of the smaller rooms. We’d be happy to help you move your stuff, if you want.”
Girl: “Well, I have chosen my room and will not be moving. I chose that room because of the bathroom.”
… etc.
Girl: “… I’ll look at those documents and talk with my parents to see if they’re willing to pay this.”
The conversation ended without a resolution.
I might add that she was looking down her nose at us. Really - at the end of each sentence, she would pause and tilt her head back just slightly, and look down her nose at us. That and her unwillingness to compromise - to turn the tables and say it’s us being unreasonable - is why I’m not being sympathetic to her. I’d gone in expecting to make concessions, but what I got was a brick wall.
I thank everyone for their advice. (I guess this should’ve gone in IMHO. :smack: )