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That really wasn’t the reply (if you’ll pardon the term) that I was expecting and rather takes the wind out of my sails. You are supposed to leap in here with an immediate and impassioned defense! 
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Testy
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Can I come in with a gentle one? 
You’re right – “free will” is not a good enough answer to “Why do terrible things happen”, because often enough terrible things happen without the necessity for free will – cancer, car accidents, random lion attacks. And the fact that religion does not make every religious person into a better person does not speak well for it. I doubt it even makes the majority of church/temple/mosquegoers into better people.
So I’ll say something that I said when I was a pagan and when I was agnostic and now that I’m an Episcopalian I’ll say the same thing:
Religion is unnecessary.
I’ll say it again, because you might not hear me.
Religion is unnecessary.
Imagine you’re going to learn how to draw. You can find other people who know how to draw and whose drawings you really like and ask them what they do. You can read books on drawing and take classes in style. You’ll find a style of drawing that meshes well with you (or discover you don’t much like drawing at all).
Or you can just take a piece of paper and a pencil and start to draw and make your own way. This is harder, obviously, but you learn all your lessons by your own mistakes. You can look at other people’s drawings and that, but in the end the style is your own.
If you decide that daVinci’s cartoons are exactly how your drawings should look, you might study them intensely and try to draw everything like that. You probably won’t be another daVinci, but you may have some stuff that looks like his.
So religion kind of works the same way. If you want to gain whatever it is you gain from believing in a higher power, you can follow staunchly down the path of other people, you can strike down your own path, glancing occasionally (or never looking at all, as takes your fancy) at other people’s paths. Or you can fold your arms and say “This path is unimportant to me and goes nowhere I find interesting” and go somewhere else.
The problem occurs when instead of taking joy in drawing, to continue the metaphor, a person starts to believe that daVinci’s way is the only way to draw. That everything he said is right and everyone who draws another way is wrong. Anime-style stuff should be burned, and let’s not even talk about impressionist paintings or pointillism or abstract shapes.
When people begin to worship their religion, when they find it more important than its message, when they stop questioning themselves and their experiences and their church and their priests, they have stopped learning. They have put themselves into stasis. They have stopped on the path and do not intend to keep going. Keeping on down the path is harder because sometimes, no matter how well worn the path, you will find trails you have never considered wending off into the unknown.
I’m willing to agree that most if not all people can be perfectly wonderful human beings without religion. I can’t even say for certain that religion is a net detriment or benefit to the world; then again, neither can you, no matter how much you think you know. How many people have been housed and fed and clothed and comforted by people because of their religion? How many other people have been hurt and killed becasue of religion? How can we quantify one over the other? And is it important that we do, or is it more important to decry evil behavior – murder, torture, hatred, cruelty – that can be inspired by religion?
I’m just saying: picking up this book on drawing worked for me. I don’t think every technique in there is very useful, at least not to me, but I like it and it works for me.