For both those that are religious and those that formerly were: what would/did it take for you to reject your religion?
Many nonbelievers say that religion isn’t supported by scientific evidence and/or that existing scientific evidence undercuts or contradicts religion. And while many believers counter that it does not or that science is itself a religion, I believe in many cases what’s overlooked is that believers tend not to have arrived, in my experience, at their religious beliefs as a result of careful scientific study in the first place. And to many believers, they see no contradiction in science. Also, many believers simply view science as answering the ‘how’ mechanics of reality but not the ultimate ‘why’ of first order (such as big bang, etc.) so they co-exist comfortably in their minds.
In my own case, I rejected my religion not due to scientific evidence as much as because of what I noticed among believers I grew up around to be an apparently increasing degree of red-faced defensiveness, apoplectic rage, refusal to honestly debate or discuss the details of religious teaching, close-minded thinking, political extremism, rabid partisanship directly tied to the religion, behavior that bordered on obsessive compulsive, and a rabid hostility towards rational dissection and discussion of religious tenets that put them into question; all of which, taken together, indicated to me a deep insecurity on the part of the believers that I was around in my church and private school. Why so insecure and angry?
The other group in my circle of believers were those that weren’t angry but grew glassy-eyed when discussions got complex and just sort of wandered away from self-examination with a mumble of “well, god works in mysterious ways…”. Not exactly the type of attitude that engendered respect in me. To the contrary.
Ultimately, both of these attitudes caused me to step back and look at religion from more of a distance historically, socially, psychologically, and in terms of cultural anthropology so to speak…and ultimately reject it as basically a cult that was merely struggling for its own existence and continued relevance while the effectiveness of its indoctrination slowly fell apart (for me) under its own weight, defensiveness, and hostility to questioning. So, that’s my story.
What would cause you, as a believer, to reject your religious beliefs? Not just your particular church or practice but your entire religious belief?
And for those that used to believe and rejected religion, what caused it to happen for you?
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