I don’t think that morality can be defined by the status quo. If that were true it would be impossible to say that the morality of the nation is declining. If everybody is doing it, then it’s moral. That doesn’t sound right.
Rather than concentrating on such controversial subjects as abortion and gay marriage, let’s look at something fairly minor in the morality debate… premarital sex. It’s immoral by some people’s standards, widely accepted today. Practiced in the past sure, yet not accepted. Today, not only is it accepted, it is also practically EXPECTED. If someone isn’t willing to put out, they are likely not going to be with the person that wants them to put out for very long. Doesn’t sound very good to me. Sounds selfish actually. And even if someone doesn’t want to necessarily put out, they may be willing to do it because they thinktheir boy/girl friend wants it, even if the other person doesn’t. What if both members of the couple don’t want sex yet, but they think the other does. They are trying to be unselfish and give in to something they think the other wants. That’s what happens in this day and age. Two people that don’t really need premarital sex end up doing it even if they don’t want to, simply because it’s expected and they assume that the other person (who they probably don’t know very well yet) wants it. This sounds like a decline of morality to me (not because of them having sex, but because they are being made to compromise themselves because of society). People are more willing to engage in premarital sex simply because their dating pool will be faar too small for them to ever get married (then have sex).
Now, if you’ll forgive me, I’ll go to a topic that is a tad more controversial: slavery. While highly considered among most of us as immoral now, it wasn’t always so, especially in the South of the U.S. This is one case in which the moral code is definately for the greater good of the community versus the individual (The U.S. economy was dependent on slavery), yet was highly immoral. It was considered immoral to many even back then, or Lincoln wouldn’t have freed the slaves. But some really thought it was perfectly moral, because they believed the black man wasn’t human. They were being selfish.
So, to me I believe that morality is the individual thinking of society and other people before himself. Premarital sex is immoral because it doesn’t consider the consequenses to the possible child that could be created, (I will ellaborate further on this in an upcoming great debate.) as well as the condition of the world if everybody practiced premarital sex. Slavery is a bit more obvious. Abortion is questionable. It depends on what your personal belief about when life begins. Same sex marriage is controversial because many believe that it would result in a better world, and others believe that it continues the trend of declining family values and devalues marriage. There are a lot of things in today’s society that I see as immoral, including receiving a high salary for doing a job that other people do for 1/10th the pay, when the rest of the world needs food, clothing, and shelter so badly. Some people deserve their high salary: Leaders, people that risk their lives, and those that help to save lives, like doctors. But your Human Resources manager of some big corporation? Why do they make hundreds of thousands of dollars per year? Sounds selfish to me, and immoral. Now I’m totally not touting communism as the answer. I think capitalistic competition is really a great way to keep productivity and quality high. But the moral upper class individual would give most of his money to charity, rather than live in a big house and go on expensive vacations.
Overeating is immoral, because it results in higher medical costs and higher insurance premiums. Not to mention the fact that it increases the chances of your spouse watching you die before your time. Sounds selfish to me. Don’t you care about your family? Why make them suffer?
Frivolous lawsuits are immoral. They are a big reason why the condition of the world is in such a horrible state. Agencies are gunshy now. Been to a neighborhood pool lately? Does it have a diving board? I’d be suprised if it does. But in my time, we ALL jumped off the diving board. It was why I went swimming. If your pool does have a board, then count yourself lucky. Use it now 'cause it’s not going to be there for long. Frivilous lawsuits = selfish, therefore immoral.
You see my point, I hope. I can’t think of anything that anyone would consider immoral that couldn’t also be considered selfish. We all understand the definition of selfish. I think it’s a pretty good synonym of immoral.