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sailor you’re not getting the point. Yes, of course other things are illegal blah blah blah. My point is that only by accepting the concept that it’s ok to buy sex, does the market for trafficking come into play. If those who would purchase sex were stopped, there would not be any incentive for folks to kidnap people and force them.

Why do you (and others) insist that it should be ok for some one to purchase sex? You cannot purchase a kidney. You cannot purchase a child. Why do you believe that it shoud be ok to purchas sex? where is the benefit to society? Theres’ certainly negatives (trafficking is one large negative, and the problems with propety nearby etc etc).your ‘right’ to purchase sex must provide benefits outweighing those negatives. I’ve asked this before, and the only response was ‘well, in a free society blah blah blah’ but, we already regulate pretty much all commerce (which this would be) and don’t allow certain things at all (some listed above).

Sexual release is a powerful force in humans, but again, it’s not necessary for some one else to provide that release.

true

there we have problems. In the first place we haven’t agreed on what consitutes ‘voluntary’. Is it voluntary when some one gets you addicted to drugs, so that you have no other means of earning sufficient quantities of $$ ? etc. and, in one of my links, you’ll note that the illegal trade also combines with bribery, lots of $$ to be had here, (not much going to the women working for it of course) And, again, it’s my point that once you accept as a given that some one should be able to buy sex, you’ve created a market for the illegal trade. As long as folks consider it their right to buy it, there will be an illegal trade.

not my point. My point is that for the few who might choose it, their right to choose the trade is counterbalanced by the large amounts of harm it does to others.

Not necessarily true frankly. And I’ve given sites that talk about that. But, besides that, I’m more interested in diminishing the market - so, if instead of concentrating on the workers, we concentrate on the customers, the market would be diminished, and I see that as the only practical way to help reduce the numbers of trafficked people.

not my point. However, they are also heavily trafficked in people for forced prostitution as well.

why? cause you declare it to be? We know that even where prostitution is legal there’s trafficking. There are insufficient quantities of people who would freely choose the profession to serve all those who would use it. How can you get around that? Either accept that **some ** people will be forced (a situation I find abhorant) or work to lessen the market. In the case of t-shirts, there isn’t a lack of people willing to work to make them, there is a lack for prostitution.

not at all, and I don’t see how you can even come close to saying that’s my point.

(Well, wring already took care of most of these issues while I was writing this, but maybe some of my points are different enough to warrant posting it anyway…:))

BK: *I said that since [lap dancing and prostitution] are so similar, what is the justification for one being illegal and the other not? In other words, although they are different, what is the difference that makes the difference in legality? Please do not ignore this question, I would like an answer. *

Well, I’m not wring, but I would have thought the answer was pretty self-evident. Physical contact between clothed people is much less risky in terms of pregnancy and STDs. It also requires less privacy—customers seem to be less self-conscious about it than about taking off their clothes and having skin-to-skin sex—so it’s more easily monitored. Given that there’s never likely to be any obvious universally-accepted boundary between legal and illegal kinds of commercialized sexuality (well, beyond a certain point, that is: making genuine snuff porn will probably never be legal while putting sexy models in clothing catalogues will probably never be illegal), it doesn’t seem to me particularly irrational to have lap dancing fall on one side of that line and prostitution on the other.

A question for anyone with an answer: How many places in the world allow prostitution? I have a hunch that it is only very few places, but I could be wrong.

Again, I recommend the article “Regulating the Global Brothel” by Leah Platt in the American Prospect that I linked to a few pages ago in this thread. Says there that prostitution is legal in many parts of Europe as well as parts of South America and the Caribbean, and “semi-regulated” in several Asian countries. However, in most places where prostitution itself is legal, brothel-keeping or trafficking in prostitution is still criminal.
already there.

sailor:(1) Forcing someone to do anything against their will is already illegal, sex or no sex.

Yeah, but that doesn’t change the practical hazards involved. Many prostitutes are in fact raped and/or abused, and legalizing prostitution would expand the opportunities for the rapists and abusers. I agree that a massive change in social perceptions, where prostitution would be established as a dignified profession whose practitioners are respected by society in general and diligently protected by law enforcement and other officials, would probably make prostitutes better off than they are now. But merely legalizing the act isn’t going to bring that about. It’s all very well to say that in theory, the customers of legal prostitutes have no more right to force them in any way than do the customers of illegal prostitutes. But that doesn’t get rid of the problem that in practice, they do have greater license to do so.

*(2) The prostitution we are talking of legalising is voluntary. Forcing people against their will would remain illegal. *

Same problem: a fine theoretical distinction that gets very blurred in practice.

(3) It may be a bad career choice for some but the government is not here to protect us against our own bad choices.

Not quite true. Much of labor law is all about protecting us against our own bad career choices, especially those that we may “choose” in desperation because we don’t see any other way to survive. There are many things that are generally considered so dangerous or not good for you that you’re not allowed to choose to sell your labor at them, and I think such prohibitions are a perfectly legitimate function of government. Whether or not we believe that prostitution should be one of the career choices in the prohibited category, we can’t beg the issue by pretending that the government has no business making any such prohibitions.

*(4) The current policy makes criminals of all the women who have already chosen to do it. They would be much better protected if it were legal and you show how little you care about them. *

Really? What evidence do we have that prostitutes really would be better protected if prostitution were legal? As I said, if we had a complete revolution in social mores to the point where it was an accepted and respected profession, that would doubtless be the case, but what makes you think that mere legalization would be adequate? (And I think it’s both unfair and silly to accuse wring of “not caring” about the current plight of prostitutes just because she is skeptical on that point.)

*(5) There are countries where prostitution is legal and I do not see them sinking into moral decay any more than the US. *

Good, but that’s rather vague, isn’t it? Never mind the general “sinking into moral decay” of entire nations; what is the specific situation for the sex workers themselves? How well are they treated, how secure are their lives and safety? To what extent does legalization affect their lives and work as compared with cultural traditions of prostitution? If we really want to consider legalization seriously, we need an awful lot of scrutiny of other countries’ experiences with it beyond a vague handwaving “well, they seem to be doing okay” type of remark.

*(6) Your attempts at linking legal prostitution with trafficking are ludicrous. We know some T-shirts are made illegally by children in sweatshops but we do not ban all T-shirts, rather, we go after the illegal activities while protecting the legal. *

Because we as a society have already long ago decided that we require a commercial garment trade, so we’re willing to put up with the burden of occasional abuses of it. We have not decided that we require a commercial sex trade (not up to the point of actual prostitution, at least), so it’s perfectly reasonable to weigh factors such as the burden of illegal abuses in deciding whether we want one.

*(7) Following your reasoning the government could and should regulate homosexuality and other aspects of our sexual lives. You could argue that homosexuality is bad for society. It is the kind of thing we heard in school as children and, frankly, I don’t buy it. I do not see any valid reasons in your arguments, only your prejudice. IMHO, your prejudice should not prevent others from doing things which (no matter what you say) do not harm other people taken as individuals or as society as a whole. *

Whoa!! Major logical fallacy here. The situation is not comparable to that of homosexuality or other sexuality issues. The prostitution debate is not about regulating sex, but about regulating commerce. If wring were arguing against the legalization of fornication, or similarly regulating private sexual choices, I would be with you all the way in reproaching her for it. Private individual liberties do pose hazards to individuals and society (and I can’t believe that you can be seriously arguing that sexual activity doesn’t!), but for the most part we accept those hazards as the price of individual privacy and choice.

When it comes to commercial exploitation, though (and I don’t necessarily mean “exploitation” only in the negative sense, I mean in general making money off of something), regulation becomes more invasive, and rightly so. As we’ve discussed in other threads, there are plenty of things that you are perfectly at liberty to choose to do as a private individual that you may not be employed to do nor employ others to do. You may hop in the sack with any consenting adults who want to join you, and tough noogies for anyone who has a problem with that. When it’s a commercial encounter, however, other factors are involved. Then we’re talking livelihoods, economic impact, the potential for economic coercion, worker safety, workplace rights, all those things that the government has a legitimate interest in monitoring. We may still end up deciding that the freedom to engage in this type of commerce outweighs in importance the burdens it may place on society. But it is not by any means an obvious call, and it is not by any means justified to assert that anyone who calls it differently from you is merely being “prejudiced”.

Quickie on this point…yet another item that wring has pretended not to see: the many times that various posters have pointed out the fallacy of this comparison. Sex is closer to a massage than a child or a kidney. It is a * service *, not a * thing *.

And yet another thing wring has ignored: the fact that it is not about “the right to purchase”, it is about “the right to sell”. I don’t have the specific “right to purchase” a massage, so to speak, but certainly I have the right to sell a massage. Which will make the purchaser feel really good all over. What is the big damn deal if I include his penis in the massage?

And as long as we’re on the subject, lots and lots of prostitution does not involve any skin-to-skin “sex” at all. It’s fantasy, talking, watching, posing…all kinds of things that a man (or woman) finds sexually gratifying that have nothing to do with oral intercourse or oral sex.

I wonder if you’ll ignore these points made yet one more time, wring? Just because you ignore them doesn’t mean they are not legitimate.

Oh, and one more quickie: you keep insisting, wring, that trafficking results because there is insufficient supply of hookers who freely choose the profession. I CHALLENGE you on this point: trafficking is not about supplying more hookers because there are not enough to service the demand, trafficking (which is illegal, again and again and again) occurs because there aren’t enough women * willing to be pimped *. The pimps steal women to use them to make money for themselves, not because johns come knocking on their doors saying “there aren’t enough hookers available! Could you go get me some more?” How ludicrous. So you might be right…with legalization, more women would be feel in control, protected, and able to make their own decisions without feeling the need to have a pimp, so the (CRIMINAL) traffickers might feel the need to traffick even more.

And your answer to this is to * punish the women who choose it freely and reject pimps. * That’s like making criminals out of the liquor store owners who won’t sell liquor to minors when the minors get drunk by stealing the tequila instead. Give me a break.
stoid
(I’ll be back later - just wanted to make these points)

From the OP:

Let’s think about this for a minute, jar. Were this were the case we wouldn’t be having this discussion.

Jar, it’s pretty apparent that you don’t have daughters. I do. And, trust me, I see a downside to legalizing prostitution.

Or, if you have any sons, how would this grab you?:

You don’t have to be a “great” person to morally opposed to this seedy business.

I’d like to take this opportunity to reiterate that I would never try to talk someone out of their moral objection to prostitution, in the same way I would never try to talk anyone out of their moral objection to abortion.

As with abortion, I think it should be a matter of individual choice whether one indulges or supports it.

stoid

ok, so even tho’ stoid has nothing to say about being wrong again (re: her absolute failure to provide requested evidence to support her position), she still feels that she can ‘demand’ of me.

  1. One cannot have a ‘right to sell’ without a corresponding ‘right to buy’ - or is it your intention that sex workers can sell, but anyone who buys from them should get locked up? Wouldn’t that, in your world view, be a restraint of trade?

  2. While the analogy between not being allowed to sell your body and sell your kidneys may not be perfect (I’d still contend that it demonstrates the fallacy of ‘I own my body & can do with it as I please’ concept though), the analogy of you’re not allowed to rent your womb for pay either is spot on. And, your ‘evidence’ I was wrong is quoted again on this page, doesn’t refute the point.

In addition, as we discussed ad infinitum and you’ve failed to address, if your position is that the vagina/your sexuality is merely one additoinal aspect of your being/body w/o any additional significance, then there would be absolutely no need for rape laws at all. Any assault would be an assault. However, we ascribe a more serious punishment when the assault is against one’s sexuality/vagina etc. (yes, rape is wrong, however, the comparison : hit my face w/o permission = assault and some punishment, touch my vagina w/o permsion = sexual assault and more significant punishment is spot on).

And, btw - the ‘talk, fanatasy etc.’ if that’s all that’s involved, the act is not prostitution, as defined under most laws.

Your assesment about ‘there’s not enough prostitutes willing to work for pimps’ does not explain the coexistance of both legal and illegal brothels in places like Australia, as evidenced by the links I’ve provided. You’ll need evidence. But then, since you’ve not come up with any so far, my expectations aren’t high.

All of this I’ve posted before. So, your additional assesment of me ‘ignoring’ these points is wrong as well.

Stoid, maybe you should focus less on attacking wrings character and more on her arguements.

[quoteWhy do you (and others) insist that it should be ok for some one to purchase sex? You cannot purchase a kidney. You cannot purchase a child. Why do you believe that it shoud be ok to purchase sex? where is the benefit to society? Theres’ certainly negatives (trafficking is one large negative, and the problems with propety nearby etc etc).your ‘right’ to purchase sex must provide benefits outweighing those negatives. I’ve asked this before, and the only response was ‘well, in a free society blah blah blah’ but, we already regulate pretty much all commerce (which this would be) and don’t allow certain things at all (some listed above).[/quote]

Because we aren’t morally opposed to it. We might be morally opposed to purchasing a kidney or a child. It is generally ok to do something that affects you negatively. There are negatives and problems associated with everything should we ban everything untill we sufficently have proof that it provides benifits outweighing negatives? Your assertion that we should start out with the idea that something is wrong is silly. The idea that you should ban something when you have to ask why people even think it is ok is ignorant.

That is correct. Too bad the people who purchase sex aren’t stopped. Which allows trafficking to flourish because the traffickers are the only ones they can go to. Not to mention the wasted effort put into stopping those who would purchase sex once instead of trying to stop permanently the people who traffick.

Lots of people accept the concept that its ok to buy sex. You can’t just ignore them because you don’t understand their position.

So basically, whats your point? I don’t see the downside. Unless you want to say that sex is the one thing that is magically different when it comes to two mutually consenting adults doing something.

The situation is much more about morality than commerce. Wrings point is about morality “My point is that only by accepting the concept that it’s ok to buy sex” and so is PunditLisa’s. Its about using laws to make people agree with you. How could it be about regulating commerce when it is banned, and banned by people citing moral reasons?

Neither am I. Which leaves us with the facts that: lapdances occur regularly, everyday, at clubs around the entire nation. I have never heard anyone claim that they are illegal. I have never heard of any busts on strip clubs that allow lapdances. I know of cops that go to strip clubs where lapdances occur, although I don’t know if they get lapdances themselves. No, I haven’t quoted a law. No, I don’t think I have to. If lapdances are illegal (doubtful), then they are in the same realm as jaywalking.

I am encouraged. You must really be desperate if you have to reach like this. “Little difference” does not mean “the same”. Period.

If you want “proof”, you’re going to be disappointed. If you want evidence, well, I’ve already presented some.

Ah, now things get interesting. Do you really think what part of the body does the grasping is important? Should it be legal to rub someone’s genitals with, say, your elbow but not your hand or mouth? Should it be legal for prostitution of some sort that does not involve penetration of an orifice? Why is an orifice something special? Any orifice, or just a few? The ear? The nose?

The overarching question being: Why do these things matter?

The only honest answer I can give is: They don’t. There is a hypocrisy in allowing someone to rub part of their body on mine for the purpose of getting me off, but not allowing them to rub another part of their body on mine for the purpose of getting me off.

There is a hypocrisy in allowing someone to rub part of their body against mine for the purpose of getting me off while I’m clothed, but not allowing someone to rub part of their body against mind for the purpose of getting me off while I’m naked.

Unless you think some body parts are mystical or something.

Since when is the person giving the lapdance necessarily clothed? Have you ever had a lapdance?

Of course they are differences, just as me hitting someone in the face is different from me hitting them in the stomache. But fundamentally, they’re the same. You have not mentioned a single difference which would justify treating one as illegal and treating one as legal.

This is irrelevant. Have you shown that legalizing prostitution will increase forced prostitution/trafficking? If you have, I’ve missed it.

You do realize that this line of argument could be used to justify making any occupation illegal, right?

I’m beginning to think I’m in the presence of a True Believer.

P.S. To answer a question not specifically asked of me: No, I would not have the slightest problem with any of my hypothetical daughters becomming prostitutes, so long as I knew they would have a safe working environment. Nor would I have any problem whatsoever with my hypothetical sons hiring prostitutes, so long as they did so legally and with care towards finding a well-regulated brothel. Or vice versa.

It’s time to let others speak.

From
The San Francisco Task Force on Prostitution: Final Report March 1996

And THIS IS VERY INTERESTING:

Regarding [http://www.bayswan.org/Austraf.html]]( [url) Alleged Trafficking of Asian Sex Workers in Australia

[http://www.walnet.org/csis/papers/doezema-loose.html]]( [url) International Studies Convention
Washington, DC, February 16 - 20, 1999
Gender Issues, Vol. 18, no. 1, Winter 2000, pp. 23-50.

Enough of that, lets adventure into what we “know” about who is a prostitute…

From [http://www.walnet.org/csis/papers/shaver-distort.html]When]( [url) Sex Works Traditional Data Distort Our View of Prostitution

From an [http://www.walnet.org/csis/papers/ishida_morals.html]]( [url) interesting paper written for an economics course by a former prostitute:

I figure that’s all I should cram into a single post. I’ll be back with more.

Sorry about the funky links, I’ll try to figure out the problem and do better next time.

Oh, and ** Sterra **, I am very, very careful not to attack people’s character, ever. I have attacked wrings arguments, and I have attacked wrings claims that she is motivated by concern for the prostitutes themselves, which I think is perfectly legitimate, given that it is very nearly the beginning and end of her arfument for keeping prostitution illegal… If there is something else. I apologize in advance and I hope someone will show me, because it is never my intent or desire to attack anyone’s character. How can I? I only know them from words on a message board.

stoid

“why doesn’t stoid attack my arguments instead of my character” excellent question.
You and your supporters may not be morally opposed to the purchase of sex (obviously others disagree). However, since you apparently allow for ‘moral objections’ in other areas, then I guess you’d have to settle for being in second place on that one (since I’m not seeing a successful push on to legalize prostitution across the country, and with excellent reasons, IMHO).

And, in the case of prostitution, the ‘postives’ seem only to apply to those (relatively few) folks who wish to pay for or sell those services. Certainly the other businesses around them in general are not reaping rewards. and, of course for those who are forced, the ‘negatives’ are quite substantial. So, again, negatives to the greater number outweighing the positives for the smaller number.
(I understand the position, I simply don’t agree that it’s in our best interest to allow it).

It’s about commerce (as Kimstu so patiently explained) because anytime you have money transactions, employement etc. it’s about commerece. If you wish to not include commerce into the deal, then we have no problem - I’m not opposed to various adults choosing w/o payment, w/o coercion to perform sex acts with or without love.

BlackKnight you may wish to continue your focus on lap dancers. Until you come up with legal definitions etc. I don’t see the point and won’t bother. I answered briefly working with my understanding of what is legal in my jurisdiction (ie dancers not allowed to touch the customer) which would satisfy the issue of ‘what’s different’. You claimed that it occcured, I suggested that didn’t mean it was legal and asked for you to supply substance. You’ve declined several times. In the meantime, Kimstu has also posted additional substance to indicate what kinds of differences there are. It’s a red herring, you may wish to play with, I’ll decline.

why bother answering questions not asked, if you don’t intend to answer the ones that are? Hell, you didn’t even bother attempting to answer the one you posed about ‘how many places have legalized prostitution’.

I answered the ‘can’t prove trafficking increases’ above. There is no hard data (other than what I’ve provided) about trafficking in countries where it isn’t legal.

I disagree on your contention that ‘this arguement can be used in any circumstance’. forced prostitution is simply serial rape. There is no analagous situation other than forced prostitution.

True believer? I’ve seen what I’ve seen in real life, sought out info for what I have not seen, and do not believe that the greater majority of society would be better off. And no one here, certainly, has provided evidence to change my stance.

More!

from here re A. How Criminalization Fails to
Protect Prostitutes From Harm

And How criminalisation fails to protect the public:

More about [http://www.swimw.org/engver.html]]( [url) trafficking and choice:

Apparently wring, your arguments about trafficking are nothing new, and a whole lot of people have big problems with them.

[http://www.bayswan.org/alliances.html]]( [url) More…

Again and again…the answer to the problems ** you (wring) ** bring up turns out to be… * legalization! *

From [http://www.walnet.org/csis/papers/redefining.html]here]( [url) , written by Joe Bindmen of ** Anti-Slavery International: **

From a report by a former sex worker (Dawn) who attended the Beijing conference on women: [http://www.bayswan.org/Dawn.html]]( [url) (here)

And good old Australia again…land of illegal prostitution, even though it’s Legal! Let’s take a closer look, shall we?

Well, three hours spent coming up with cites and evidence is plenty. I think I’ve managed to counter or refute, * ** with cites and evidence ** * virtually everything you’ve said, even offhand remarks.

I’m satisfied.

Stoid

And I suck at URL coding. I tried, but I’m tired.

Stoid, thanks for your effort. At this point I have run out of steam and your research is valuable in this thread. It seems though that nobody has been convinced of anything and everybody’s positions are more entrenched than at the beginning. Too bad.

one comment first:
stoid there have been several people in this thread that have commented on your tone with me. People who are on your side, people on my side, I, myself have complained. Yet you still claim that you only respond to the argument and don’t get personal. Perhaps it’s time for some re-evaluation on your part. It ain’t just me sayin’ it.

I applaud the fact that you sought out sites. As a suggestion when you’re listing them, remember please to leave a blank in front and after each one. Otherwise, you’ll end up with non links (I got to them anyhow 'cause I figured out what you did wrong). Just in the spirit of making life easier.

let’s take 'em one at a time. The San Francisco task force. Yep, I’ve seen it. A couple of points you failed to highlight include: "As expected with such a complex and potentially volatile issue, the Task Force could not reach consensus on every issue. Its recommendations represent the best efforts of all concerned to balance competing concerns. " Which means that not all of the people on the committee agreed. There are, of course methodology problems - for instance when they claim that city residents ‘overwhelmingly disapprove of the prosecution of prostitutes’, their evidence is

quite a bit less than compelling.

But then, there’s more. They also note that the enforcement option which they say ‘hasn’t worked’ focuses on arresting the females. Hmmm. yep, the only possible choices are arresting the females or making it legal. It’s also interesting to me that we only have the report, issued five years ago ie - where’s the follow up? did they do it? more on that in a bit.

another interesting tidbit

If the ‘overwhelming majority’ is in favor of it, why would they they consider the person ‘stigmatized for life unable to pursue other jobs’?

They expect that a fine will alleviate the trespassing and littering problem associated with the trade? (ie people having sex in the alley behind your store, condoms on the ground - it’s one of those real problems I’ve commented about). Let’s see, they speculate that the jail time hasn’t had any appreciable effect, but a fine alone will?

Bottom line to this piece - what evidence that they allow us to see (ie the ‘telephone call in to the local newspaper = overwhelming support’) is shaky at best. To suggest that since their one tactic with prosecution (focusing on the sex worker) hasn’t worked, that legalization is the only other choice is based on a false dilemma. The situation isn’t 'either arrest hookers or make ‘em legal’, there are other options available (which I’ve mentioned before.)

Now, as for what happened after they submitted that report. You should have kept searching for information. Seems that instead of legalization, San Francisco went with this plan which (gasp) focused on the ‘demand’ side of the equation, and providing services for the sex workers to get out of the trade.

have we had enough of that one? I think so.

your next link was from “the Prostitutes Education Network”, which says

hardly an unbiased source of information. I mentioned in previous threads with you on this subject, I don’t find it surprising at all that an organization with the goal to legalize prostitution would present some form of data to support it. I also found sites (I’m sure you saw them too) from a similar (but opposite) organization, that had the eradication of prostitution as it’s aim. I refrained from posting that link, because, well, it’s not compelling. Sorta like linking Rush Limbaugh’s site to prove some Republican mantra. I linked to a study that I know that you objected to, noting that you did object. You, however, link to a paper, quote it several times as if it’s the final authority, without bothering to note that the originators of the paper have an agenda. Rules are apparently different for you. I shouldn’t link to a site that you say is biased, but it’s dandy for you to link to one that actually shouts out that it’s biased.

Now, in your next post you quote extensively from yet another offering from the “Prostitutes Education Network”, and two that looked rather interesting - of course, when you click on to the funding source for the papers, you find this

for example.

On contrast, I linked to news sources (including ABC, testimony in front of our House of Representatives, a place called “us.infostat.gov”, global march, and assorted university sponsored sites.

I don’t find it surprising at all that after listing these sources, you feel your job is done, your point is made. But, like the dittoheads who continually quote Rush as their substantiation and substitute for facts, it comes up short.

I am done, my point is made. It is a certainty that nothing will ever penetrate your prejudice. The fact that my sources are found on pro-legalization cites is nothing stunning, and it does not reduce the legitimacy of what is presented. As far as I’m concerned, it increases it. But then, throughout this thread you have dismissed the actual women who are prostitutes, arguing all along that the government knows better what their lives and experiences are and the cure for their suffering: more law! More Jail! That’ll save them! “,gov” as a reliable source of unbiased info…riiiiiight. :rolleyes:

Thank you, ** Sailor **, I was avoiding doing the research, not because I didn’t think I could find the material, I knew I could, I just also knew it was going to be what it was: a time-consuming pain in the ass.

But I couldn’t let the lurkers of this thread go away thinking that ** wring’s ** version of prostitution was the ultimate truth, when I know it is anything but.

Anyone who follows the links will discover that the material is vast, and that much of it is scholarly works written by people who have absolutely no investment whatsoever, and it is chock-full of bibliographies, statistics, and footnotes. Not to mention the ** voices of the prostitutes themselves. **

The fact is, the best thing we can do for the prostitutes of the world and ourselves is decriminalize what they do and start treating them like any other worker.

And now, my friends, I leave you. There is no question that anyone who wants an education in the subject can learn plenty from this thread and all the links in it. This has taken entirely too much of my time as it is.

stoid

Yikes, long thread. I had so much I wanted to say when I opened it, but I’m worn out from reading. Let me just give a couple of overall impressions.

wring - many of your arguements seem to stem from a belief that prostitution is the direct cause of rape, slavery, and several other assorted flavors of misery. I can’t agree with your theory of causation.

You may not think prostitution is moral, and on that we will have to agree to disagree. But you really can’t claim to be in the majority on this. Furthermore, laws based solely on morality are a bad precedent; jail time for coveting your neighbor’s wife?

I understand that you are passionate in your opinions. They are, however, only opinions. And mine differ.

One last thing I meant to mention a while ago… there is nothing at all surprising or unbelievable about statistics which say that large percentages, even majorities of Americans favor decriminalization. Look at this thread; without going back and counting, my memory says that there have been about 4 anti-legalization folk, and everyone else has been pro. If the SDMB isn’t a good microcosmic sampling of the American public, it differs only in that the education and IQ might tend to run a little * higher *.

stoid

Once again, instead of refuting or even addressing my argument, stoid resorts to a personal attack.

I disagree w/ her and that makes me prejudiced? I point out that her sites are self promotional and she doesn’t see that as a fundemental flaw? wow.

And, once again, she engages in the dishonest misrepresentation of my stance -dismissing women who are actual prostitutes? I’ve been clamoring for the plight of all of those forced, coerced etc. If not prostitutes, what are they? chopped liver I presume. . Apparently in stoidland the only women who can be called prostitutes are those who agree with stoid. The others I linked to must be something else entirely, the aforementioned chopped liver I suppose.

You have no comment on the San Fransico cite? the one you were so proud of a few short hours ago? Only to find, much to your dismay that the city elected to not legalize it, but to (oh, the horrors), do what I’ve suggested? attempt to lower the demand, while providing alternate services to the sex workers themselves.
Yep, I agree, you’ve presented (after 6 pages) a few cites from heavily ‘prolegalization’ organizations, I’ve presented a wealth of cites throughout, from a wide variety of sources that paint a different picture. the viewers are free to pick and choose.

The September issue of Palyboy magazine, page 62, has an article about strippers. It mentions a strip club in San Francisco called The Lusty Lady. It is a place where there is a central stage surrounded by booths. The naked women perform on stage while the customers masturbate in the booths. A quarter buys 15 seconds before a shutter closes. The article is about how the strippers unionized and shut the place down with a strike and gained some concessions from the management.

I would point out: (1) This is clearly sex for money, the only limitation is no physical contact and (2) these women were able to bargain for better conditions because what they were doing was legal. If this was not legal they would have no legal protection and no recourse.

I have been lurking on this thread. This is because my many posts in past threads on this subject were dismissed out of hand.

   If you skipped those threads: I'm manic-depressive and have spent time living in psychiatric facilities. While there I've met large numbers of mentally ill women who had lived on the streets and exchanged sex for money. For a long time, the horror stories they told me had me convinced that prostitution should be legalised. I thought that legalisation and only legalisation would assure that prostitutes had entered the profession willingly and were safe.

  The many facts Wring cited convinced me otherwise. The horrors continued, and the public could ignore them, secure in their belief that legalisation had ended such abuse.

Why should a system of legal prostitution be more effective than the mental health system we were already in? Numerous, unreported rapes occured in the psych wards. If the government and the hospital staff can not prevent or even see rapes in a closed facility, how could it protect a prostitute who worked outside a legal brothel? I realise that this is not a perfect analogy. But both systems are designed by well-intentioned people, and both often fail the people they were designed to help.

Previous threads have told me that Wring comes from a similar background. She worked at a center providing assistance to women who were or had been in jail. She cares about prostitutes for the same reasons I do. She has heard the horror stories first hand. Yes prostitutes suffer under criminalisation. Wring has plenty of cites showing that legalisation will not end that suffering.

  As far as lap dancing- Under the laws that I know of, the customers are forbidden from touching a stripper's buttocks, breasts or genitals. The stripper is forbidden from touching any of the aforementioned areas to the cutomer's face or hands. The stripper is forbidden to stimulate the customer's genitals, but this is usually ignored. Many strippers will indeed cross the line from a legal lapdance to an illegal sex act. Many clubs will ignore this because it brings in money. A  lapdance that pshysically stimulates the customer's genitals is illegal. The HBO series G-String Divas goes into great detail regarding the laws regulating stripper customer contact. It follows up with footage of strippers violating those laws.

 Peep shows and dungeons are in a gray area. Many cities do not consider these places illegal if no sexual contact occurs between staff and customers. Recently, however, the Philadelphia police department has(for reasons that escape me. The dungeons haven't changed. The laws haven't changed. Either the dungeons were illegal all these years an no one bothered to inform the dungeon owners or staff, or they were and are legal and the cops are arresting people who have not violated the law.) In general if the customer masturbates while viewing or listening to the sex worker but no sexual contact occurs, the transaction is legal.