I just wanna go on record as echoing this sentiment. This is precisely my biggest problem with the ads.
When I first discovered the board it really felt like some hip underground community. Take the “don’t be a jerk” rule for example. It used to be put into practice in much the same way it sounds as if to say “hey, come hang out with us. Just don’t be a jerk or anything, because that kinda ruins things for all of us. Oh and welcome”. Jerkish behavior was called out, chastised, and even ridiculed by posters and mods alike, but rarely did anyone get banned. Now there’s an entire body of “official” policies that go along with that rule, and of course, considerably more bannings. I do think that this particular aspect is a result of a natural evolution of things, and not anyone’s fault in particular, but I am saddened by it.
The discourse on paid subscriptions before they went into effect is a more direct example of how things used to be compared to this. The very fact that the administration thought enough of us to involve us in the discussion was pretty cool. They actually asked us “hey guys, we’re sucking money out of the Reader and it just isn’t fair to them. We’re tossing around the idea of requiring people to pay a subscription fee. Whadya think?”
I actually used that as a selling point in preaching to my friends about what makes this place so wonderful.
I wish there were similar discussions about this.
I’m not even going to say that anything about this decision is wrong or unethical. But like eleanorigby, I’m just feeling like I’ve perhaps been naive in the past about having the view that this place was somehow some sort of neat internet utopia. I still love this place and I’m probably not going anywhere for a while, but I do realize it’s a business like any other. It’s naive to see it otherwise anymore.