I dont. And I made that clear in my post.
BTW, I’m sure that in every office job, the President or Manager or Boss is always so much smarter than his new employees and never yells at them or criticizes them. :rolleyes: Noone in the civilian world ever has a boss dumber than themself I guess…
I dont see how a person who can’t tolerate that for a short period of time can succeed at all in life. In fact, if someone tried to work at Benningan’s but got deep in the weeds one Saturday Night on his first week and then walked out in the middle of his shift because he just couldn’t handle the stress. I would call him a pussy too!!
It has absolutely nothing to do with the military. If you can’t handle a little pressure or a little stress, you’re a goddam baby with no manner of intestinal fortitude whatsoever. There’s tons of examples of this all over this message board and everyone wants to baby them and say “ohhh it’s okay, that job isn’t for everyone. You’ll find something you’re good at and something you like”.
Sorry, not everyone can work as a professional finger painter. There is stress in life.
I could understand if a person chooses to not join the military. And even why a person would choose to not re-enlist. Or even for a person who was expecting something better but just didn’t like it or got fucked over so he hated it and complained the whole time and decided to get out after his term. I have no lack of respect for these people.
But if you’re going to choose to enlist–knowing that your drill sergeants are not necessarily geniuses, and maybe you will have some superiors who are all jacked up–and use this as a reason to become a deserter, than you’re idiot.
And if you just can’t handle the pressure and become a deserter, you’re a pussy.
I disagree. So now I’m a wuss? You’re going to have to provide more to back that up than “you called a quitter who can’t handle a little pressure a “Pussy”, so you must be an insecure wuss. I learned that on Oprah”.
Back to the OP:
Did you ever find out if your buddy was fucking with you? I still think he was just on leave.
Here is a little more info on AWOL.
When a private goes AWOL, he has 30 days before he is a deserter. After that, it doesn’t matter if he comes back in 40 days or 440. He’s going to pay the penalty of being a Deserter.
If he comes back within that 30 days, his Company Commander has the option and discretion to handle him in a variety of ways. He can Article 15 him, take rank, take pay, give him extra duty, confinement, etc.
After all that, he can recycle him to start him at the begining of BASIC, or he can submit paperwork for a Chapter 10 Discharge, which is Dishonorable.
The only thing I can think of that would be the “Entry Level Seperation” that keeps getting mentioned is for things like prior existing medical conditions, or if someone has questionable tatoos that they are unwilling to remove.
There is also some type (Chapter 13, I think) for people who just can’t adapt. I think Chronic Bed Wetters fall under this category too. I believe that none of these are dishonorable discharges (unless the medical condition was intentionally hidden). But none of these are available to Diserters.
Possibly–I guess-- the “failure to adapt” reason for discharge would be available to a person who went AWOL and came back in a couple days, but that would no doubt come after a couple months of hell and punishment. And would still have to come from a generous chain of command.