I don’t see why you’re defending DOMA, or pretending it’s not so bad.
Do you not see how it would make gays second class citizens not entitled to certain rights even in States where gay marriage was allowed?
Things like being able to file jointly, and transfer property to a spouse without paying Federal Taxes would not be allowed.
The spousal impovershment act which prevents community property and income from being anhiliated in the event of long terms sickness would not apply to gay couples.
There would be no social security survivorship benefits.
The concept of ownership of retirement assets upon spousals death as well as continuation of benefits under COBRA would be at issue.
Alimony would probably be unenforceable for gays.
You first started off saying that the Democratic party doesn’t tolerate homophobia. You seem to have backed off that.
You next said that all DOMA does is give states the option of whether to recognize other states’ same sex marriages should they become legal. You seem to have recognized that you missed the second half of the legislation.
Now you are basically trying to argue that the Federal protections afforded to spouses, aren’t really that important, and the state will take care of it.
You seem to forget that people sometimes have to move, and that people usually have businesses and dealings across state lines.
You seem to be ignoring that Federal protections like the spousal impovershment act, and the right to transfer property to a spouse without paying taxes, and that continuation of benefits, and ownership of retirement assets are important protections.
If you wish to salve your conscious and pretend it’s not so bad, and doesn’t convey second citizenship to gays at the Federal level, be my guest. I do not share your delusion.
At least you can console yourself with the fact that it was a Republican idea, even if your party went along with it.
Thusly, you can continue to pretend that you’re holding some moral high ground, and continue to feel good by demonizing your political opponents.