My grandparents lived in Harrow during the war (my granddad was a draughtsman working on Hurricane fighter air intakes). My grandmother said she, pregnant with my dad, went with her friends with picnics to the top of Harrow Hill during the Battle of Britain and parts of the Blitz, and watched dogfights over the capital, cheering them on like sporting events.
During the Blitz, a bomb landed in the front garden of their next-door neighbour, tunneled all the way under my grandparents’ garden, and came up, unexploded, in the garden of the next-door neighbour on the other side.
She also drove ambulances, which were converted Pickfords removal vans, in the blackout with blackout headlights (downward-facing grilles) which rendered the headlights pretty much useless. She said it was amazing she never hit anything or anyone, haring through the streets of north-east London pretty much blind.
She went to one house that had been knocked in half, everyone in it killed, and said she was freaked out because in the half of the kitchen that had survived the teacups were still hanging from their hooks on the dresser, right next to the dismembered limbs of the children and adults that had been in the kitchen at the time.
They built an Anderson air raid shelter in the back garden and pimped it out with floorboards and store cupboards, but never used it. During construction they thought they’d walled in their cat, because they could hear mewing coming from the shelter, so took out all the floorboards, only to find that she was actually stuck inside a small cupboard. I used to play in it when I was a kid.
My other granddad was chief gunner on a destroyer, working the Indian Ocean. My grandmother, living in the south of England, got by while he was away, bringing up my mother. She was in a butcher’s shop buying sausages one day when the butcher suddenly said “I think I just heard a doodlebug stop”. She was holding my mother, who was a baby, and the butcher grabbed her and pulled both of them down behind the counter. The V1 flying bomb landed nearby and the windows of the shop shattered inwards violently, lacerating the meat to shreds. He saved her life, and that of my mother, and by extension, me.