Looking for a Song

Looking for a song that I haven’t heard in a long time.

Have tried various lyrics search sites without luck.

I remember it is a lady singing about her abusive husband - and I think it contains the phrase
“Can feel the pressure rising, building like a storm”

She sings about provoking her husband because the not knowing is worst…

then continues to load the pickup, and sneak away with the kids while he’s sleeping?

Can anyone help?

Just giving this a bump - hoping someone has heard of it…