Maybe I missed it (I was scanning the other posts quickly) but I was surprised that I didn’t see “Sympathy for the Devil”… what a great song with a pretty terrible meaning.
My other one is embarassed gulp “Father Figure” by George Michael. When I was a little kid (like 3rd grade) I loved this song, it sounded so emotional and sweet and heartfelt. When I got older and understood what it was about I had a serious moment of disillusionment (not to mention gag reflex).
I LOVE this song. But it’s just creepy…paraphrasing, “I don’t give a damn if you don’t really love me, as long as you pretend to.”
And, frankly, while “Your Body Is A Wonderland” is still a bit unpleasant, I feel much different about it now that I know it’s not really about Jennifer Love Breasttit, after all.
I love Public Enemy, they’re my favorite musical group ever. And I think “Welcome to the Terrordome” is their greatest song. But this part is clearly anti-semitic:
Crucifixion ain’t no fiction
So called chosen frozen
Apology made to who ever pleases
Still they got me like Jesus
Yeah, I guessed that’s what you meant…but I’d honestly never realised she was saying anything in Gaelic. I’d put it in the category of her ‘hmm hmm’ melodies (where she harmonises with herself) rather than lyrics that she was singing… if you get what I mean? I never realised it was actual lyrics, because a) the chanting is so hypnotic and b) whatever she’s singing over the top is so pretty I always got caught by the sound of it and never realised it was actual words.
“Himmel oder Hoelle,” by E Nomine. It’s quite possibly the most awesome monumental dance/dark techno songs I’ve ever heard, but the lyrics are literally a preacher’s sermon asking the congregation if they want to get into heaven or hell, that God is the only way to salvation, yadda yadda bla bla etc.
Some of the songs I love/hate are about screwed up relationships where the singer lets their lover treat them like dirt.
There’s more, but the only ones I can think of are two songs sung by Rod Stewart:
That’s why I can’t bear to listen to it, maybe 'cause it makes me feel guilty. My parents have been in a rather codependent relationship for years, and my ex and I split up rather than put our child through that. Of course, we’re probably screwing her up just as badly. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t, I guess.
Two songs that I really like but hate what they’re about involve manipulating people into thinking they have a shot, but don’t.
But, I can’t make me love you
and you can’t make me either
Patience boy, I need it
I can’t make me love you
Patience boy, on strange days
I can’t make me love you
Butterfly Boucher “I Can’t Make Me”
I’ll probably never love you, boy, but do keep waiting. Maybe I’ll surprise us both one day. A long time from now. Maybe
But I’m still happy when I get to hold his hand
He says I can hold it but remember we’re just friends
And I try, and I try, and I try to be satisfied
After all he keeps me alive
Sally Shapiro “He Keeps Me Alive”
And here the boy is the jerk, knowing that she’s got a thing for him but allowing things to go on that way anyway despite his lack of interest.
I want to put both of the boy in the first song and the girl in the second into therapy so someone can fix them.
A love song? Really? I don’t know anyone who interpreted it as anything but a complaint against a parent (presumably mother) who felt the need to share all her relationship problems with her daughter, leading her to grow up with an inability to trust and develop intimacy.
I heard it played at a wedding reception once, as a request from the bride dedicated to the groom! Never underestimate the general public’s ability to completely mishear/ignore/misunderstand lyrics. If I had a nickel for how many times I’ve heard “Every Breath You Take” as the bride/groom dance song at a wedding reception, I’d be independently wealthy.
I have long defended the right of the listener to make his or her own independent interpretations of songs. For instance, just because a given song is about the songwriter’s struggle with addiction doesn’t mean I’m wrong when I associate it with a struggle with a bad relationship. We all bring our own experiences to the appreciation of art, and things inevitably strike us in different ways. This is cool, not bad.
However. “Because of You” as an appropriate wedding song: this is a more *independent *interpretation than even I am comfortable with.