I have, as an adult, struggled with weight gain since I was in my early 20s. Both of my parents are obese and so is my brother.
I have had the best luck with carb-restrictive diets.
Without a tsunami of backstory and detail, let’s just say I got scary skinny “just kind of watching my carbs” the first time, went food-nuts with a bad relationship, gained some back, got in the best shape of my life working out and doing low carb the second time, and about a year ago my current GF wanted us to go low-carb because she’s desperate to lose weight, and I was the biggest I’ve been (I spent like a decade not caring about my weight).
I’ve shed at least 30 lbs sticking with it (cheating every month or so, maybe more. Maybe half a pizza every 3 weeks) and there’s a clear, honest, downward trajectory with my weight that isn’t debatable. I’ve gone from a size 40 to a size 36. Weight is down but best part is I can wear clothes I didn’t fit for like 4 years.
I’ve gone from around 255 to 218. I’m not working out and I’m not getting any cardio. That will be added in. My goal is to be in reasonably good shape by Sept 2020 (I turn 40 and I want to be in reasonably good shape). I have ridiculous muscle memory and really athletic build. Any effort at a gym reaps immediate gains.
This diet is working well for me, and i don’t understand how. MY GF abandoned it because she got no results. She lost a little then stalled and just couldn’t bring herself to restrict her diet for NO REASON.
I’m posting here because I have a fitness buff for a BF who groans at “fad diets” and absolutely demands “YOU CANNOT LOSE WEIGHT UNLESS YOU RESTRICT YOUR CALORIES.” When I tell him I’m losing all this weight doing low carb he chimes that “you’re just eating less calories. There’s literally no other way to lose weight.”
I am in no way whatsoever restricting my calories. Only my carbs. This glaring truth smacked me like a runaway train tonight when my GF and I shared a bunless burger meal—which I cooked and seared in duck fat. I’ve been doing sous vide red meat cooked in duck fat for a while now, but when she–who is counting calories–asked what the fat percent of beef was, I had to contact my butcher. As we all suspected, it was 80/20. But the butcher pointed something out: “that duck fat is going to be a bigger issue.” He’s right. It’s an additional 130 calories per tblspn.
I don’t get why I’m getting away with massive calories but no carbs and I’m shedding weight like a bag I have to let go of while she can’t lose anything while counting calories.
How does this work? I have to admit I cannot believe I should be losing weight as well as I am.