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The obligation to not kill people, though, extends to all people (with some exceptions, none of which are relevant here)
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Why aren’t they relevant?
I consider them relevant. There are situations where humans kill humans and we don’t call it “murder”. At least not automatically.
• In war, participants (generally male) are actively expected to shoot holes in each other. Not only is it considered OK to kill in self-defense, it is considered OK to kill on a first-strike attack basis when it is war. Even if it is an unjust war. Not automatically: Lt William Calley was widely considered to be a murderer. Josef Mengele was not considered to have behaved in an appropriate manner. Those aren’t the best examples, even; Even one’s lethal treatment of one’s avowed enemy forces in wartime may be regarded as murder under some possible circumstances.
• In pretty much any situation where one is directly under attack and has reason to believe one is in imminent peril, one may strike back using lethal force, in self-defense. There is a bit of grey area here: would a “reasonable person” think there was a danger of being killed if they did not kill first? What about when the risk does not appear to (necessarily) be a risk of death but of dismemberment, getting raped, getting beat up, etc? Not that one necessarily knows where the invasive humiliations will stop if one does not stop them pre-emptively. But yeah, not automatically OK here either. Bernie Goetz on the NY subways did not get a free pass.
•Pregnant women can abort the embryos and fetuses they are carrying. They’re alive and human but they are also simultaneously part of the women’s own bodies and living parasitically on them. Being pregnant can be wonderful when it’s what you want, but can be horrid when it is not what you want, and women can have abortions to quit the process. Here, too, is some grey area: while early-phase abortions can be accomplished without even knowing one is pregnant, utilizing menstrual extraction which can be performed without the aid of a medical professional, more complex techniques are defined as medical procedures and the necessary equipment is relegated to medical professionals only, without whose cooperation no abortion can occur. And once again it’s not automatic: the later the pregnancy, the more compelling the reason for abortion needs to be to outweigh the increasing state interest in the right of the potential baby to come to term. There is a widespread consensus that women should not use abortion in lieu of birth control and that if you are going to abort you should make up your mind and do so early on soon after you discover that you are pregnant, although extenuating circumstances are relevant there too.
Why would the other exceptions somehow be “irrelevant”? They are all unusual, exceptional cases. Situations where we as a species have come to feel that not all cases of humans killing humans are murders.
Abortion is serious, it is heavy, it is killing, it is a solemn act decided upon, hopefully, with appropriate gravity by the gravid person who gets to make the decision. She’s the one who gets to live with having made it, one way or the other, more centrally than any other human.
I think there’s a certain attitude that women have no business making such somber life-and-death decisions. I also continue to think that there is a sexually punitive attitude (“fucking slut spread her legs and let some guy fuck her, she should not be allowed to abort if she gets knocked up, that’ll teach her to keep her fucking knees together; if she didn’t want to be pregnant she should not have been fucking around”). I know the leaders of the pro-life movement are not subtle about it, I’ve read their writings, so it’s largely a matter of whether or not the rank & file of the pro-life movement is infected with that attitude as well. (Or, in all fairness, the more sociological variant, that “Society is better off when females’ sexuality is curtailed by concern over unplanned pregnancy…an ideal society is one in which males can have access to females only when they have earned it by being substantial wage-earners and where females can only choose mates who can suppose them and whatever kids they may have economically”).
Screw that shit.
So… it’s killing. Some other forms of killing of humans is not considered murder. We may not love it but we accept it and we generally do not harass the participants. We are pragmatic. War is. Life is sometimes violent and self-defense is. And yeah, abortion is. If you got a problem with that, explain yourself.