OK, I was incorrect in calling the site “excellent.” It is not full of excellent writing, excellent graphics, etc. It merely expresses its point of view clearly (and humorously), and I think that POV has quite a bit of merit.
BTW, most of the writing on the site is stuff he’s collected from message boards, etc. Agree with it or not, it expresses the POV of many males without BS or PC.
Doctor Shaft has some good points about foreign brides. Japanese women are extremely pampered, for instance, and have a sense of entitlement probably even greater than that of American women. But they are also more feminine and willing to play the role of the traditional housewife, so I would say that, overall, they are a better buy than American women.
Mysoginistic? Sure, in our current PC world if you make any negative generalization about women or a subclass of women, no matter how slight or based in reality, that’s “mysoginistic” (but you can always say whatever you want about those pesky, oppressive men, 'natch!). So, perhaps the site is so, yet perhaps that term no longer has much meaning.
I don’t think the site is saying that women looking for a “career” or “self-fulfillment” are therefore bad; it is saying, rather, that such self-descriptors are highly correllated with neediness and self-centeredness. And I would certainly agree.
If feminism means treating women with equality and respect, then I’m all for it. Unfortunately it has been a bill of goods that women have bought on credit and never paid for. Simply put, women have continued to want men to be the breadwinners, pay for dates, open doors, etc.; yet for the sake of “equality” men now have to support their women’s careers, do an equal amount of chores, etc. Yet women have not accepted commensurate duties.
What good is it for a man to marry if he doesn’t want kids? The only benefit is a reduction of negativity (i.e., social opprobrium, family disapproval) where such conditions still rarely pertain, and we all know that such tends to be a very poor motivator of positive action.
My best friend has been living with a woman for four years. The reasons he has not married match those given by others on the site very well. If you don’t think this is a trend, it’s time to wise up.