Meenie7's invisible friend

[QUOTE=Rilchiam]
I thought Meenie said Marcus was okay with doing a test, but it wouldn’t happen until her friend comes back from CA. I don’t have time to wade through all of this thread and the other one, but I don’t remember her giving any “It doesn’t work that way” excuses. The impediment was her not wanting to bring RL people in on it, other than the one who already knows.
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How do we know she even has a friend in California? I see no value in a test upon which the results are entirely self-reported by the subject. If I claim that my dick can see through walls, I can just as easily make up a story about a “test” I did to prove it.

I get that some people are hoping that maybe she might get a wake up call for herself when she realizes that “Marcus” can’t see anything that she can’t see, but I have a feeling that she’ll just invent some kind of explanation to herself and refuse to face reality. If she had any interest in facing reality, she would have gone to a shrink years ago. If she doesn’t want to deal with her illness, that’s her prerogative, but let’s not act like her symptoms are some kind of cute, droll little personality quirk. Those kind of full blown hallucinations and delusions are a serious alarm bell. What if it’s being caused by a brain tumor? I think it’s irresponsible for any of us to suggest that she doesn’t need to get checked out or to humor this stuff in any way.

[QUOTE=Trunk]
You mean, besides meenie? We can only hope so.

Yes, it would be awesome. It would be awesome to have a ghost friend, and to be able to fly, and turn invisible, and have a pony.

It’s just that most of us outgrow such notions by the age of 8.
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There are some things about being a child that should be outgrown, but wonder and imagination are not one of them. Your post makes you sound like a sad-sack grouch.

Hallucinations are not products of “wonder and imagination,” they are products of brain disorders.

[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]
Hallucinations are not products of “wonder and imagination,” they are products of brain disorders.
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I wasn’t even referring to the issue of whether or not Marcus exists, but merely the validity of one wanting to have a ghost friend or other such ‘childish’ dreams.

I’d like to point out that Meenie, who seems to be generally honest and well-intentioned, can easily perform the dice test on her own. Take some dice. Put them in an opaque cup. Cover it with your hand. Shake it. Put it down on the table with the cup covering the dice. Close your eyes. Lift the cup. Ask Marcus to tell you what numbers are showing (ie, “5, 5, 2, 1”). Open your eyes. See if he’s right.

Granted, nothing you report will in any way be proof or evidence to those of us on the SDMB, but the result might be interesting to you.
Alternatively, can Marcus wander around the world and find a specific address? If so, we could perform a distance-viewing test of some sort.

[QUOTE=Autolycus]
I wasn’t even referring to the issue of whether or not Marcus exists, but merely the validity of one wanting to have a ghost friend or other such ‘childish’ dreams.
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I think wanting is one thing, but acting like you have one, and never even being able to come out of it and say, “Okay, seriously though, guys, I was just joshing you” is a bit scary.

[QUOTE=Sampiro]
PS- (to Meenie)

…when I was managing an apartment complex for schizophrenics I’d have been honored to have you two as residents, for if Marcus is a delusion at least he’s a very interesting, colorful, and consistent one, and that’s more than I can say for those who actually lived there. :stuck_out_tongue: )
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Which begs the question: would you have charged Marcus rent? And would Meenie have paid it?

[QUOTE=MaxTheVool]
…Alternatively, can Marcus wander around the world and find a specific address? If so, we could perform a distance-viewing test of some sort.
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If someone here works at a public place, like a well-known museum, place an object somewhere ‘Marcus’ can find easily. Meenie7 can then ask ‘Marcus’ to go there (she can show him on google maps) and he can see what the object is, report back to meenie7, then confirm with the Doper.

[QUOTE=Lute Skywatcher]
You are Number 6.

Sorry, couldn’t resist.
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I’ve always thought the quote was, “You are, Number 6.”

[QUOTE=Trunk]
Yes, it would be awesome. It would be awesome to have a ghost friend, and to be able to fly, and turn invisible, and have a pony.

It’s just that most of us outgrow such notions by the age of 8.
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Hold it right there, pal. I will never outgrow the notion that it would be awesome to be able to fly!

[QUOTE=Czarcasm]
I’ve always thought the quote was, “You are, Number 6.”
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There was sometimes a slight pause that implied the comma, but it was almost always “You are Number Six.”

[QUOTE=Lute Skywatcher]
I was thinking more along the lines of The Voice of God in Real Genius. :slight_smile:
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“And Kent?”

“Yes, Lord?”

“Stop playing with yourself!”

“It really is God!”

I love that movie. :slight_smile:

[QUOTE=dropzone]
There was sometimes a slight pause that implied the comma, but it was almost always “You are Number Six.”
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Considering the question asked, it sure as hell is a good answer though. :smiley:

Back to the OP.
If a long-time poster casually claimed that she/he had the ability to teleport, and had been doing so for years, how would all those who are preaching tolerance now react? Would you keep an open mind, or would you openly doubt and ask for evidence?

[QUOTE=Autolycus]
There are some things about being a child that should be outgrown, but wonder and imagination are not one of them. Your post makes you sound like a sad-sack grouch.
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You couldn’t be more wrong.

I was just able to maintain that sense and channel it into mathematics and engineering.

An adult still stuck on notions of imaginary friends and invisibility is the sad fucking individual here. They were never able to find a worthwhile outlet for their sense of wonder.

[QUOTE=Trunk]

An adult still stuck on notions of imaginary friends and invisibility is the sad fucking individual here. They were never able to find a worthwhile outlet for their sense of wonder.
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That’s where you’re wrong, too. I’m a writer and I channel my imagination in that way, writing stories and working on other ideas. (I could link to some if people want to say ‘Cite?!’) Even if Marcus is some sort of diseased fantasy of mine, I don’t have any trouble in the imagination-channelling department.

[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]
There are only two explanations for meenie’s claims which conform to the known laws of physics: deception or delusion. The simple assumption that physically impossible hypotheses are physically impossible is not something that has to be proven. It is the rational default. If you can’t assume the impossible is impossible then you can’t do science. You can never prove anything wasn’t magic.
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The only reason you can claim the first sentence is true is because you put the word “known” in it - obviously, if Marcus and/or other ghosts were suddenly shown beyond doubt to be objectively real, the laws of physics would of course change.

As for the rest, the rational default is to not believe it. Which is not the same as knowing beyond all doubt that it’s false. And that garbage about not being able to do science unless you assume that your guesses about what’s impossible are right? Do you know what science is?

In real science, as opposed to the fallacy-riddled mess that is your position in this thread (I count false dillemma, ad hominem, and assuming the conclusion just at first glance), you don’t go around casually proving the negative. You refrain from believing the extraordinary claim, but the intellectually honest scientist always keeps a crack open, a recognition of the sliver of possibility that there might be something unseen until it’s actually proved false (which ghosts in general and Marcus in specific of course have not been). You then go through life ignoring that sliver until someone brings actual evidence, but the sliver of unlikely possibility nonetheless remains.

In real science, that is.

[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]
As for testing, what reasonable test has been proposed? How are we even defining the word “ghost?” what test would distinguish a “ghost,” from say, an invisible goblin who’s lying and saying he’s a ghost?
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The dice tests so far are reasonable. And who gives a shit whether Marcus is technically a ghost or a goblin or an invisible troll or a trickster god? Science would rename the phenomenom themselves if they determined it was real. And can we say, ‘grasping at straws’, anyone?

[QUOTE=Der Trihs]
Wrong. There are those that are logically inconsistent, or those that the claim makers refuse to produce any evidence to make such tests, or to permit reliable tests to be made. Scientists declare absurd, baseless claims to be impossible on a regular basis, or simply ignore them as not worth bothering with.
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Conceded on the logically inconsistent, which is utterly irrelevent to the current issue. I already said that scienists regularly ignore claims that don’t back themselves up. But your claim that scientists declare the unproven to be impossible is a load of steaming shit. It’s becoming clear that you don’t have a clue how science works, and merely cite it where it appears to support your position like a somewhat educated creationist.

[QUOTE=Der Trihs]
There’s room for an immense amount of things; such as everything we know to exist, and much that’s only theoretically possible. And the alterations or extensions of the rules require evidence.
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Ghosts are theoretically possible (though entirely unsupported by evidence). And I wholly agree with your second sentence as well. Congratualtions, we agree!

[QUOTE=Der Trihs]
Ah, yes, I’m “dogmatic” for dismissing the wild claims of people who deny known physics with no evidence to support their claims. I’m not flatly denying such nonsense as ghosts because I’m dogmatic; I’m doing so because the known laws say it can’t happen, and the people who claim otherwise can’t or won’t produce any evidence.
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No, you’re dogmatic because you’re asserting a negative with no evidence to support your claims. You have presented not a speck of objective evidence proving that Marcus is either a lie or a delusion. And (again) you have a poor grasp of how physics and science are kept aligned with reality, so that part’s codswallop. And the lack of evidence is compelling reason not to believe, but it’s not a god-given writ of knowledge against. Come back when you can recognize the difference between those two concepts.

[QUOTE=Der Trihs]
There isn’t going to be “argument between reality and physics” over this sort of thing, because it isn’t real. Just as with religion, the believers have had thousands of years to produce evidence, and failed utterly. Why ? Because they are fools, lunatics, and liars.
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So pronounceth the prophet Der Trihs, lone seer of truth, prover of negatives, and all around infallible omitient prophet (which is the only way he can justify pulling these assertions out of his ass).

Or do you have positive proof that it’s not real? Absence of evidence actually isn’t evidence of absence, you know. And no matter how many you prove to be frauds it doesn’t prove there’s isn’t a real one somewhere - it just means the nobody should believe in them until they prove it.

At the moment, nobody’s proved anything. Not meenie7, not you. But of the two she’s not the one ranting like a demented young-earth creationist. So we don’t believe either of your claims, but at least we don’t think she’s acting like an ignorant dick.

[QUOTE=Der Trihs]
A silly statement. I don’t need to test every insane, evidence free claim that I come across to know that they are garbage. Not only do I have plenty of evidence that the world works in a way that forbids such phenomenon, but the people making those claims never provide the evidence for me to make a judgement on anyway.
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Actually, to know they are garbage, you do have to prove it. Or do you have the same sloppy definition of the word “know” that all the theists who “know” that god is real do?

And yes, the people making those claims never provide the evidence for you to make a judgement on. That includes a firm judgement that they’re wrong. (Unless they try and fail, which meenie7 doesn’t seem to have gotten around to doing yet, or at least we can’t prove she has.) We don’t believe her claims because all testable claims for ghosts in the past tested false. Precedent counts. But it doesn’t preclude the possiblity that me might finally have a live one…not entirely anyway.

Now let’s see if I got past that faith-based certainty in your own god-given rightness… I won’t hold my breath, though.

[QUOTE=Trunk]
You couldn’t be more wrong.

I was just able to maintain that sense and channel it into mathematics and engineering.

An adult still stuck on notions of imaginary friends and invisibility is the sad fucking individual here. They were never able to find a worthwhile outlet for their sense of wonder.
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I’m glad I’m wrong about you, but I still emphatically disagree with your last paragraph. I guess it’s my Tolkien/Lewis fandom showing again. I forget which it one it was that wrote about the power of myth, but I’m guessing Tolkien.

[QUOTE=meenie7]
That’s where you’re wrong, too. I’m a writer and I channel my imagination in that way, writing stories and working on other ideas. (I could link to some if people want to say ‘Cite?!’) Even if Marcus is some sort of diseased fantasy of mine, I don’t have any trouble in the imagination-channelling department.
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In all seriousness, have you considered the possibility that you might have a brain tumor? Would there be any harm in getting a CAT scan to rule that out?

[QUOTE=Czarcasm]
Considering the question asked, it sure as hell is a good answer though. :smiley:

Back to the OP.
If a long-time poster casually claimed that she/he had the ability to teleport, and had been doing so for years, how would all those who are preaching tolerance now react? Would you keep an open mind, or would you openly doubt and ask for evidence?
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And if a co-worker said at lunch today (my real world version of IMHO, where the thread started) that they see ghosts, would you - A: maybe roll your eyes, or just say that you don’t believe in ghosts, or would you B: jump up, accuse them of lying, screaming that they are FULL OF SHIT, and demand that they submit to testing or seek professional help, kind of like they OP did? If you picked B, you can make a case that logic and science is on your side, but it goes a long way toward explaining why many people might think you are a dick.

Also, if you are a dick long enough, people tend to stop thinking if your right or not, if your being a dick or not, about individual situations. They just start thinking, oh Dio’s ranting again, geez that guy is a dick.

[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]
In all seriousness, have you considered the possibility that you might have a brain tumor? Would there be any harm in getting a CAT scan to rule that out?
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Cost?

One step at a time:

  1. First she oughtta perform a dice test for herself. If Marcus fails, she should get worried, talk with him about it, talk with a shrink about it, talk to a cat-scan doctor about it…etc.

  2. If he passes, perform a similar dice test in front of a friend when the opportunity arises. If she thinks Marcus is passing and the friend disagrees, she should get really worried, since there’s a fundamental disconnect with reality going on. Seek help even faster.

  3. If her friend verifies that Marcus has proven itself to him, then she should then sit down and decide which is more important to you: expanding the boundaries of science, or avoiding being publicly known as a ghost whisper. Me, I’d keep it under wraps, myself, but I’m selfish that way.

  4. after that, if she doesn’t decide to keep it under wraps, she should seek out a skeptical professor to demonstrate it to, and then a TV station, and then some JREF people.

  5. Profit!