There’s nothing wrong with a suggestion. Read the OP. She suggested and that was totally fine. He said no and that’s also totally fine. That’s the end of the story. It’s not like he wants to wear his hockey jersey to a black tie affair. What he wants to wear is perfectly appropriate to the setting. That the OP wants to make out a personal preference like its some kind of gender-based personality flaw, is not an appealing point of view to me.
I’m really tempted to write another review that says “the profile of my penis shows right through” but as a favorable feature of the shorts. It’s just a hilarious thing to say.
Actually it’s not so trivial at that, considering that guys are so strongly pressured into one choice, i.e. long and baggy. I’ve lost count of how many of these shorts discussions there have been on this message board.
Long and baggy might be fine in spring or fall, but in August when it’s 90 degrees out, come on. Women wear anything from capris through Bermudas to short shorts and nobody cares, except maybe to notice their legs. They vary the length of their shorts according to the temperature. But if a guy goes around in short shorts, he might be forced to surrender his man card.
I don’t get it. Why would you want your guy to look good? The only reason guys like him dress up is to look good for women. If he starts trying to show off those “nice legs”…well, I’d get packing, cause you’re about to be dumped
As for the actual point of this thread: meh. I question why it matters so much to the OP. I happen to agree with the guy. Guys legs look bad in general. And those that look so much like girls’ legs that I suffer from whiplash. “Ooh, nice legs. I wanna meet that chi—Oh, it’s a guy? Pukes”
I thought **Zsofia **was pretty clear in her very first post that she wanted her boyfriend to have reasonable length shorts because she felt they’d be more appropriate for running. Then the boyfriend reacted surprisingly and she wanted opinions on why men are like that. She probably wouldn’t have started the thread at all if her boyfriend said something reasonable like “you know, they may be better for running but I’m just getting started and while I’m not at all afraid of my knees, I really like the color of the longer ones better.” But instead he was horrified at the idea of exposing his knees. That seems like a totally reasonable thing for a woman to be curious about because as a guy I also find it ridiculous.
And are you suggesting people should actively want their partner to look bad because otherwise they’re about to leave you? How could anybody be that insecure? I can understand being old worn out and unimpressive and just not caring like Diogenes the Cynic and his wife, but who actively wants their partner to not look good?
You know, I run a fair amount, and I don’t see many guys running in below-the-knees shorts. Hanging out at the mall, sure. Playing basketball, sure. But not running. So if the OP’s husband is trying to go along with the crowd, he’s really not succeeding.
I don’t see anything in the OP about Zsofia’s BF asking for her opinion on his shorts. She was trying to force her ideas on him and then trying to pretend that her ideas were ‘normal’ and asking us what was wrong with him (and by extention all men) for not liking them.
Oh, come on. He was like, “Well, what do I need?” and I explained about liners and stuff and that you don’t wear underwear with them, and that these here are the running shorts, and how about these? “Uh, no. Pervert.”
Try keeping up with the conversations. That was a sidebar with DtC related to, but not directly addressing, the OP.
And, as a man, I’m on her side in that I see nothing wrong with shorts, especially for sports, just above the knee (and if you’ve got the legs, even mid-thigh). But I’m an old fart who remembers the really-short shorts of the late 70s (when I had the legs to support wearing even those).
Since when did the thread title change from: Men - what is your problem when it comes to shorts? to Men - Why won’t my boyfriend just shut up and wear the shorts I tell him to wear?
If my friend is into rock climbing and wants to introduce me to the sport and offers to take me shopping to pick out some gear, I’d sure as hell be open to that person’s advice, especially if they offered to buy something for me.
It’s just running. It doesn’t require any specialized knowledge.
Also, if they’re married, then one person isn’t really buying anything for the other person anyway. It’s all the same money.
Even if you’re offering to buy something for someone else, what’s the point of trying to buy them something they don’t want? Just let it go. let the poor guy wear whatever he wants. If the longer shorts ever really begin to hinder his ability to run (and they won’t), then he can make his own decision to buy the hot pants.