I made a bet with a co-worker back in April. The bet was which team would have a better record at the end of the season. The Giants or the Mets. I had the Giants. We discussed it awhile beforehand. Agreed on the terms ($50.00). And shook on it.
September rolls around, and I notify him that the Giants are up 25 games with 24 games left, I win the bet, PAY UP! He says " I’m going make you wait until the end of the regular season, since that was the bet". I think it’s pretty weak, but I’ll wait. I guess that was the terms of the bet, a little bitch move nonetheless.
So, I wait. The end of the season comes and goes, still no money. He says to me “Don’t worry, I’ll pay you, I just don’t have it right now”.
He still hasn’t paid me. I bug him once in awhile, but not to vigorously.
What should be next course of action?
A) Be patient, and wait.
B) Increase the magnitude of the bugging.
C) Something drastic. Try and fight him, key his car, tell his mom.
D) None of the above.
Well, since he’s a co-worker, I’d wait until pay day and then hit him up then. If he’s a friend (that’s a co-worker) I’d just nudge occassionally. Maybe you could go double or nothing on something else?
Take him to Judge Judy. She’ll spend the whole time yelling at one of you for some made up reason, and probably end up ordering you to pay him $50. But at least you’ll get to be on TV.
If I ever overheard him making another bet with someone, I’d sure inform them right in front of him that the guy welches on his bets. I can’t believe someone wouldn’t honor a bet made in good faith.
Call up the charity of your choice and pledge a donation of $50.00 in his name, and with his address and phone number. They will hound him for you. And since you weren’t gonna get the money anyway, you aren’t out anything.
See if you can extract an IOU, possibly with a date attatched. If he refuses then he can’t use the ‘don’t have the money right now’ excuse, and has to admit he’s a welcher. If he does, then you’ve got a stronger bargaining position if he ever does have some money.