Mexican restaurants don't serve stray cats.

[bobtimusprime]

As I said earlier in the thread, I just thought it was a comment on the food was so bad even strays wouldn’t eat it, but that’s because I’m not a member of one of the groups in question, so I wouldn’t have even thought of it from that perspective. So I guess that

@BigT

Are you in the minority in question? Are you someone who hangs around with that minority in question and have talked to them about it, or gotten a feel for what they would find racist?

If not, then, yes, I would say that you’re understanding is beside the point.

is probably a good way to look at it. I’d dare say that if more often people would refrain from commenting and pontificating authoritatively on subjects when they haven’t any first hand experience with them, the world would be a better place.

[cochrane]

@bobtimusprime

As I said earlier in the thread, I just thought it was a comment on the food was so bad even strays wouldn’t eat it, but that’s because I’m not a member of one of the groups in question, so I wouldn’t have even thought of it from that perspective. So I guess that

is probably a good way to look at it. I’d dare say that if more often people would refrain from commenting and pontificating authoritatively on subjects when they haven’t any first hand experience with them, the world would be a better place.

And if anyone is an expert on commenting and pontificating authoritatively on subjects when they haven’t any first hand experience with them, it’s BigT.

[bobtimusprime]

He is? I thought he was just advocating against that sort of thing?

[cochrane]

Yes, isn’t it ironic? All he does is finger-wag and pontificate. His BigTard Lecture Series is known far and wide.

[somepumpkin]

@Merneith

What’s that about?

As **Kimballkid **explained, it was a weak attempt to evoke a little comic relief… hence, the Chipotle reference

[bobtimusprime]

@cochrane

Yes, isn’t it ironic? All he does is finger-wag and pontificate. His BigTard Lecture Series is known far and wide.

Huh. Interesting. I’m still getting the lay of the land here, so to speak, so did not realize that. I’ll keep it in mind in future threads.

[sitchensis]

@Eonwe

Would you say it to a Mexican’s face, and would you be honestly shocked if they were offended by it? Would you tell them they were wrong to feel that way?

If I was describing two Mexican restaurants to a Mexican guy and said one was really good and that I think the other one serves strays. I believe the Mexican guy would walk away from the conversation thinking one restaurant was probably good and one restaurant was shitty. I don’t think he would walk away from the situation thinking I was making some sort of commentary about Mexicans eating dogs. You would have to be fucking nuts to jump to that conclusion.

[octopus]

@Left_Hand_of_Dorkness

No. I don’t need to ask him, because the magic of language is that HE TOLD US WHAT HE MEANT. WITH WORDS.

Nobody but you is confused about the fact that:

1. He described a Mexican restaurant.
2. He talked about “the other place in town.”
3. That other place is fucking obviously a Mexican restaurant, not a Burger King or a lingerie shop or your butt.
   :rolleyes: Who am I? I’m someone capable of forming a goddamned opinion, someone who’s not being a dummy about it. That’s all, and that’s enough.

You absolutely would. You’d probably make racist jokes about it. If someone did, you’d obviously defend them, because the mere suggestion that someone might have said something racist makes you shiver like a wet dog in the snow.
You say this despite someone saying they’ve heard this precise stereotype in Mexico, and despite people pointing out that “brown people running restaurants ignore health codes and eat taboo foods” is a common stereotype. The fact that you’re unfamiliar with this stereotype–or that you’re refusing to look at the broad one and focus instead on a highly specific stereotype–is not relevant. The stereotype exists.

Cracking a joke about missionary eaters is not racist you big dummy. You don’t even know what these words mean. You just throw them like a poo flinging monkey.

[Left_Hand_of_Dorkness]

@octopus

Cracking a joke about missionary eaters is not racist you big dummy. You don’t even know what these words mean. You just throw them like a poo flinging monkey.

Oh for fucks sake. To think that I ever thought that you were worth responding to.

[wonky]

@Left_Hand_of_Dorkness

Oh for fucks sake. To think that I ever thought that you were worth responding to.

Ya big galoot.

[octopus]

@Left_Hand_of_Dorkness

Oh for fucks sake. To think that I ever thought that you were worth responding to.

Did you not read what you wrote about me? You can’t get all indignant when you attack someone and they respond in kind. I’m sure there is a term for that behavior.

[cochrane]

@jsgoddess

That’s a bridge too far, Colonel Bogey.

Don’t make him kwai.

[Left_Hand_of_Dorkness]

@octopus

Did you not read what you wrote about me? You can’t get all indignant when you attack someone and they respond in kind. I’m sure there is a term for that behavior.

I’m not indignant at the insult, I’m disgusted by the stupidity.

[Shagnasty]

@Left_Hand_of_Dorkness

I’m not indignant at the insult, I’m disgusted by the stupidity.

How do you shave?

[Left_Hand_of_Dorkness]

@Shagnasty

How do you shave?

With my wit.

[Bryan_Ekers]

“At these prices, I’m not surprised!”

• has someone said that already? I’d read the thread to check but I’m lazy.

[TokyoBayer]

@VinylTurnip

On the bright side, it is encouraging to hear that Shagnasty’s kids are pushing back against his ersatz Uncle Remus whitesplaining horseshit.

You actually believe anything he says? He lies when telling the truth would be easier.

[Shagnasty]

@TokyoBayer

You actually believe anything he says? He lies when telling the truth would be easier.

You keep saying this but it isn’t true you dysfunctional, expatriated Mormon casualty. I am not that creative. I can only write about things that I have experienced and it is all true (and often not very self-flattering). If I could invent a character that wasn’t the real me, I probably be doing something other than posting on the SDMB consistently for 17 years. I am just the same in real life as my posts here.

[Budget_Player_Cadet]

@bobtimusprime

Huh. Interesting. I’m still getting the lay of the land here, so to speak, so did not realize that. I’ll keep it in mind in future threads.

With that in mind, quick counterpoint: I find BigT to be one of the more consistently accurate and reasonable posters, and always appreciate what he has to say, so YMMV.

[psychobunny]

Actually, I thought that they were secretly serving dogs and cats but it turned out they were just giant rats (or am I getting my urban legends mixed up).

It reminds me of last year when I was crossing through the courtyard of a nice hotel in downtown DC. The had some nice stone benches and some trees and the squirrels were scampering around-until I realized that these “squirrels” had long skinny naked tails instead of nice bushy ones. Then I realized why nobody else was enjoying the nice courtyard.