I’m leaving Milum right out of my comments here and addressing this to Starving Artist, as he seems to have become the focus of this thread.
SA and I have an amicable relationship on this board, despite the fact that I am almost as far to the left on many topics as he is to the right. This is because, early in his history here, I discovered that he was indeed willing to listen to opposing viewpoints and even corrections of his posting conduct, so long as they were phrased with courtesy and respect. He did in fact change certain behavior, and apologize for transgressing some of our unwritten rules of conduct, when his errors were brought to his attention. I have been able to at least nudge his thinking into unfamiliar channels at times, with a direct but respectful pointing out of angles he ought to consider.
As to SA’s political stances, I despair of ever bringing him to The Truth[sup]TM[/sup] as I see it. But I can back him in his claims that he will engage in what is (at least to him ;)) a rational discussion with any Doper who meets his arguments with at least a modicum of acknowlegement that he is sincere, rather than contemptuous and sarcastic dismissal.
Now, those of you who see through pretty much the same lenses as I do are bound to find SA frustrating, wrong-headed and at times infuriatingly persistent in what we regard as an obstinant refusal to accept the obvious. So be it. He’s got his worldview, and he defends it. Well or badly, that’s for you to decide. If you choose to dismiss him as a Bushistic tool, so be it. But he’s not a Milum, at least not as I see him.
And, Starving Artist, my friend, please hear this: I think that at times you circle the wagons too quickly. As others have pointed out, there are thoughtful conservatives on this board who are respected even by those most diametrically opposed to their worldview. Pick your fights, my friend. Choose your allies for their qualities as posters, as much as for their politics.
I think you also are too quick at times to dismiss or ignore the arguments of your opponents. I can think of a number of instances where you rejected out of hand a point that you would have at least listened to, if it came from me, simply because it was being presented by someone you have pegged as hopelessly liberal. Well, you have me pegged as such, too, but you don’t disregard my opinions, even when you cannot agree with them. 
In short, my running dog imperialist fascistic tool of a friend, step back and take a deep breath now and then, okay? 
On preview: gobear has excellent advice. heed it, pal; HEEEEEEED IT… 