I’m 44 (and a half) and am regularly mistaken for much younger.
I’m currently back in college working on another degree and so have a lot of classmates in their early 20s. The few times my age has come out, people, incl. professors, have expressed surprise (once in an acting class and I volunteered to play to role of the middle-aged mother “since I can identify with her…I also have an 18 yr old kid”, everyone just looked at me, gaped-mouthed and said, “No WAY!” (then, I imagine, they started trying to figure out exactly how young I was when I got pregnant…9 or 12? :eek:)
I’d pass it off as lack of perspective, except it happens a lot with those my age or older as well.
I use morturizer, but usually only in the winter when my skin dries. I prefer either some natural all over blend (Jason is good) or the natural oils added to bath or rubbed in before bed. Anything with petroleum/derivatives irritates my skin, so I avoid it.
Recently I have begun using a daily lotion with a low sunscreen and soy complex (Aveeno) because my recent issue is not wrinkles but darker discolorations that come out with sun exposure. (very common with women my age with my skin tone (sort of olive) due to hormones). I wear stronger sunscreen when out for longer periods/swimming. I also swear by hats. (and not ONLY because I have been told I look cool in my big black sunhat lounging by the pool
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I currently smoke (sometimes like the proverbial chimney) and have for, oh gosh, a few decades, cummulatively now. :o Yes, time to quit, AGAIN!
I grew up on the Gulf Coast and NEVER wore sunscreen (but only burned twice, a bit of pink aside).
I do eat fairly well (a vegetarian for 16 yrs or so now, mostly whole grains, lots of fresh veggies/fruits, little junk and lots of water)
I don’t exercise as much as I should lately, but I walk around campus and USED to cycle 50 miles a week (for 5 yrs) and do yoga.
I think most of it is genetics/skin tone, really. I have darker, more olive skin. I tan like crazy but seldom if ever burn. My skin has always been a bit oily, to the point that by the end of the day I can run my hand across my bare face and feel the thin layer of oil there. No doubt that helps with locking in the moisture.
I certainly don’t take much credit for it (a co-worker once saw my DH, who was a few yrs older than me, dropping me off and asked, “who’s that old guy?” I told her and she said “he must be a LOT older than you!” I told her and she said, “You must have taken really good care of yourself!” I said, “No, I haven’t, actually.” :p)
Re’ the area around the eyes, YES. I can tell that will be the first to “go”. It’s so fragile/thin. After my husband died a few yrs ago, I cried so much my poor eyes HURT and were SO red and swollen…I didn’t leave the house for over a week because I looked so awful (not due to vanity, but because I knew if anyone saw me they would ask what was wrong and I knew it would make me cry again, which would HURT LIKE HELL/make it worse. :() And I rub/touch my eyes too much generally. Guess I’d better stop now, huh? :smack:
ETA, I look forward to my own lovely wrinkles…I find them charming…a map of your life (so SMILE:)) But note that I prefer to look FORWARD to them for now. 