As many of you know, jackelope is my older brother. We have both kept fairly quiet about this all so far on the forums, but I have to share good news that came in last night.
But first, backstory: Our mom is going to have a bone marrow transplant to treat her for myelofibrosis. The short version is that her bone marrow has slowly become less and less productive as it has been displaced with scar tissue. As such it’s putting more pressure on her spleen and stuff. Her blood cell production has taken a steady decline and the doctors finally said it was time to pursue a bone marrow transplant.
We’ve known this was coming for a while and for the last several years we had a donor lined up. But when word came and the agency handling the transplant donor matching tried to contact our donor they were unable to. So this threw us back to square 1 and we had to look for a new donor.
Donor matches are judged on 10 points of DNA, and for a transplant you want 10/10 but 9/10 does work. We had two people who were 8/10s and when the first donor fell through they were retested and found to be 9/10s. So the agency jumped on one of them and tried to get them. We’ve been waiting for news throgh the past month, and it comes in short bursts.
“We’ve got two donor choices, we’re waiting for your doctor’s team to convene and decide.”
“Alright, we have a likely donor, we’re trying to contact them”
“We’ve contacted the donor, she’s set up a time with the local office to meet with them.”
“We’re waiting on blood work to rule out any last chance of problems.”
And last night
“The donor has agreed to donate and is cleared.”
Each of the above phrases came with at least a week’s intermission, sometimes two weeks, so it has been a slow plodding process. The last sentence came last night and we were quite exhuberant and overjoyed.
The last step is for the donor to set a date, and we may have that as soon as today. We’ll see. This is the first step on a long road, hopefully one to recovery for our mom. But it’s an important step.
Prayers and good mojo would be dearly appreciated.