Then you have my sympathy. I can’t imagine going through life having the same understanding of the personality and thoughts and desires of the entire world that I haven’t met. To me it would be a massive torture to understand as little about the lives of the average American as I do about the lives of the average Diak. To me that would require wiping away all that I know of American lifestyle and culture and history and personalities until I knew as little of them as I do of Diak lifestyle and culture and history and personalities. While I have knowledge of people they are real to me, not abstracts. The more I know of them the less abstract they are. I know about Americans and as such I feel them to be real people, my brothers, not figures in an almanac. I know nothing of Diak aside from the fact that they exist. For me such people can no more evoke emotion than fictinal characters. If someone invented the Diak, if they never existed I would be none the wiser, my world would be no poorer for that fact. I take it on faith only that such a people exist. I cannot feel emotionally connected to such people. That you move through this world caring as little for the strangers who live three doors down as you do for the Diak fills me with immense sorrow. I doubt we will ever understand each other.
What the hell ::eek:?
What are you, the thought police? Of course it would be okay. People should be free to feel however they like. If you like chocolate ice cream more than vanilla that’s your preference. If you prefer tall men over short, that’s your preference. If you prefer associating with educated, enlightened, moral people over drug-fucked vermin that’s your prefrence, and if you value white people over black that’s also your preference. Who the hell am I to tell you what your values should be. I am shocked, shocked that you honestly believe that anyone should be able dictate personal choice to others. More nauseted than shocked actually. Believe what you like, value how you feel, just don’t try to justify it with false logic and psuedoscience the way many people try to. So long as you admit that you don’t value black people as highly is because of emotional reasons then I have no problems with that. Your emotions are your own affair and no concern of mine or anyone elses.
So what? If such a belief is wrong in your eyes then it is wrong for all people. To suggets that minorities should be able to embrace amoral ideas that you wouldn’t tolerate in WASPS is bigoted in itself. WHat exactlya are you getting at here?
Call me what you like. But if you’re going to do it on these boards you’re going to have to support your claims or else appear extremely ignorant. By all means call me a bigot if you see any evidence of intolerance, I’d appreciate it. But if you imply I or anyone else is a bigot on these boards wihtout providing the necessray evidence of intolerance I’m going to call you out.
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Look penny, this has absolutely nothing to do with belonging to a group. Nowhere have I said that or even implied it. If I was as intimate with a completely alien culture to which I do not belong as I am with American culture I would value those people more highly. It is entirely and exclusively down to empathy and an ability to identify the humanity of people, not belonging. In case you haven’t noticed I’m not American myself. Never been there. This isn’t a temptation that has to be fought and overcome. It’s the way my brain, and apparently the brain of most people here, works. I don’t have a problem with it, it doesn’t hurt anyone, it doesn’t affect my life, it just is. By implying that this is something that should be overcome you come across as more than a little sanctimonious.
But Penny, I’m an Aussie. I just happen to be almost as familiar with American culture as my own.
Leaving aside the fact that I never made any such claim…
If you really can’t understand how living side by side with a group of people, sharing their misfortunes, their ideals  thier dreams, their history, their belief system could lead one to become familiar with them in a way not possible with a group of people with whom you do not share these bonds then I really do pity you.
Tell me Penny, what does the average Diak wife have for breakfast in the morning? What are the little things that will hit her hardest as she prepares breakfast at the start of her day when she realises her husband is dead? When will she be forced to face people again? What will be hardest for her to endure? Will Christmas be lonely? Thanksgiving cheerless? If you can’t answer these questions then how can you say that you feel as much empathy with the Diaks as you do with the Americans?
And I will repeat myself: Perhaps it would be more correct to say “I value the lives of people with whom I can empathise more than those with whom I cannot, and while acknowldging that the vast cultural melting pot that is modern America may lead to the presence of people or groups of people with whom I cannot readily empathise, and while similarly acknowledging that many Afghans may be people with whom I could readily empathise I find myself on the whole, in the balance, all additional factors being take into account, valuing American lives over and above Afghan”. However such clarification is not germaine to the discussion at hand and doesn’t make for readable posts.
You are guilty of splitting hairs Penny. We are all well aware of the multi-cultural nature of the modern US. This does not in any way detract from the underlying truth of the statement.
Then I suggest you try either England or Australia.
And again you miss the fact that that was an obvious analogy. The point is that saying “A is more valuable tha B to me” can never be wrong and is not open to debate. Saying “A is more valuable tha B” can be demonstrated to be wrong. You have missed the point entirely.
No you wouldn’t be guilty of any such thing! You haven’t treated any car in any way. You have merely observed and felt. That is not preferential treatment. Had you got out and covered the Beetle up and left the other untouched that would be preferential treatment, but simply observing and feeling is not preferential treatment by any definition I’ve ever seen. Exactly which treatment is the more prefrential? Observing and doing nothing as was the case with the Beetle, or observing ad doing nothing as was the case with the other car? Surely both treatments are the same?