I’m not for banning the lottery, but I can see the damage it does. Soon after we got a lottery in Texas my brother-in-law became addicted. Every time he leaves the house he buys tickets, the floorboards of his cars are full of old scratch-offs. He cashes in a few hundred dollars worth every month, so I can only imagine how many he is buying. He works 84 hour weeks at a high-paying job yet they have trouble paying bills on a modest house in the country.
Anyway, when my mother retired her and my father moved into a tiny guest house on my sister’s property that they fixed up with a few thousand dollars I gave them last year when I got my stock options check. At the time my brother-in-law said he’d charge them $200 a month to live there, but he would count the money they spent on repairs and stuff on the little guest house (I think it was once a garage) towards that rent. My parents spent over $4000 on it, so you’d think they’d have 20 months there before they started having to pay rent. Hah.
My sister told my parents that she would give them rides to the store and stuff, since my Dad has alzheimers and my mother never could drive. My sister has plenty of time alone (when her husband isn’t working, he’s fishing) and was happy to help my parents out. Well, the car my sister drove broke down while she and my parents went on a day trip somewhere, and her husband got mad at her and had her name taken off the checking account. Her husband won’t let her take my parents anywhere in his cars because he said my parents ‘trash cars’, which is extremely fucked up, my parents are very neat people while my brother-in-law’s cars always are full of trash and he has messed up more than one vehicle my parents have lent him in the past. My parents have an old pickup with no AC that they let my sister use to drive them around and for herself, and my brother-in-law has said since we got the truck that it was a lemon, was dangerous to drive due to loose steering, and was going to break down any day now - my Dad’s had that truck 5 years now, and I think my brother-in-law was jealous that my Dad got such a good deal on it - it’s from the early '80s but has good mileage and the previous owner fixed it up a lot with a lot of chrome, custom upholstery, only thing wrong with it was the AC and the steering. Well, another of his cars broke down and he fixed the steering on the truck so his son could use it sometimes, and then later started talking about selling the truck so he could fix one of their OTHER old cars for my sister.
Anyway, I’m getting off-track, back to the lottery. One day my mother bought a couple of lottery tickets (she very rarely buys a scratch-off or two herself) and she won $200 total on the two tickets. My sister made the mistake of telling my brother-in-law about it, and the very next day he told my parents they were going to have to start paying $200 a month rent again. He also told them they needed to write to get a new copy of the title so they could sell the car when they found a buyer, and when the title got there they kept it, saying that my parents might lose it.
My Mom was now constantly worrying about their future, they feel like they are under house-arrest because my sister can only get permission to take them to the store or elsewhere every other week or so, and they were afraid that they were going to lose the truck, see none of the money, and still not be able to go anywhere. I think a lot of this is due to my brother-in-law’s addiction to the lottery, though there are a lot of other factors too. Luckily I have an awesome wife who loves my parents too, and she suggested that we move into a house this fall and let my parents move in with us. I am always checking with my parents to see if they need a ride anywhere and I gladly drive the 90 miles out there to get them to the store or wherever, and I told them to tell my brother-in-law that I reminded them that they promised me the truck and I was planning on buying it next year when I get my tax return (a lie, but after they told my brother-in-law that he went from saying he had someone lined up to buy the truck to saying that nobody was interested in the heap of junk).
Eek, sorry for the long rant, probably should have gone in the pit…just had to unload some of that.