Perhaps I’m just the wrong generation, but I’ve never really “gotten” The Graduate. So Mrs. Robinson was a little horny - is that so wrong? Maybe if her husband had paid her some attention instead of playing golf all the time, none of that would have happened. And Benjamin strikes me as a total brat. He doesn’t really care about Elaine, he’s just using her to make a point; his obsession seems mighty shallow. I didn’t blame Mr. Roper for kicking him out.
Mrs. Robinson needed to go to AA, Benjamin needed a job (what was he doing just hanging around the pool all summer?), and Elaine should have joined the Peace Corps & gotten away from all those fools.