I was pondering how thoroughly strange it is to me that people who otherwise appear and function as though they are normal members of society and the human race, can make a decision to kill someone over money or other “things” - divorce would be costly, or there’s a big insurance policy, the reasons that usually come up in spousal murder. I’ve always found it astonishing. Crimes of passion or fear or crazy I can at least intellectually process, but Joe Regular Guy deciding it would be cheaper to kill his wife than divorce her just floors me.
Which brings me to the debate.
The murder types are “plotted gain” which is what I opened with. Otherwise normal person with a normal life chooses to kill someone they know because that’s more beneficial than anything else, or so they see it.
Simple “gain” is kind of gain/fear: murder of a stranger in the commission of some kind of theft. Burglar kills homeowner or stickup guy kills 7-eleven clerk. They are panicked, adrenalized, decide to kill to cover their tracks.
Passion: Well, we know what that is. Wife comes home to find hubby in bed with another women, goes nuts.
Revenge: Duh.
And finally, Batshit Crazy. That would be the serial killers, generally speaking. The folks who do it because they want to for some reason, usually a sexual compulsion.
So…are all these kinds of murders equivalent? Is unlawful killing unlawful killing, period? Or should we consider the motives, circumstances and mental health of the person doing it?
Strange as it seems, I think that the least shocking? Evil? I don’t know what the word is… the batshit crazy people, while their crimes are generally more disgusting in the details (Dahmer lunching on his victims), are more “forgivable” I guess, in that such people ARE batshit crazy, and they are compelled by forces they really have almost no control over. (“Forgivable” doesn’t mean we cut them loose or anything, I’m not saying that of course. I’m just talking about our reaction to the crimes more than anything.)
Next in line would be passion killers, who i think are actually pretty rare. I’ve been upset in my life, but not so much that my brain disengaged to the point where killing someone seemed like an option. But I could imagine it under really terrible circumstances… I know of someone who almost killed their husband when they found him in the act of molesting their daughter, but realized that killing him then would be worse in terms of lasting effects than what she caught him doing. But that kind of passion-in-the-moment reaction I could see.
Then gain/fear - yeah, such people are bad to begin with, they are stealing, but it’s still not so much about wanting to hurt another person as protect yourself. Screwed up, of course, but not as much as…
Revenge killers. Although, kinda depends on the nature of what you’re seeking revenge for.
And the worst of the worst for me is the otherwise normal dentists and insurance salesmen who decide that killing Wife 1 to make room for Wife 2 is an acceptable option.