Broomstick tells me she’s gone for some rest, on the orders of her husband’s treatment team. They are aggressively providing palliation for his symptoms and making him comfortable as the situation progresses.
Sharing a bit more at Broomstick’s bidding, her husband has complications including bilateral pneumonia and urinary tract infection, and has become non-verbal while displaying other signs consistent with significant brain dysfunction and possible systemic blood clots. Treatment is aimed solely at reducing suffering, as other measures would be futile.
Please share my/our (if I can speak for the community) continued good wishes during this difficult time.
Thank you for the updates.
Thank you,** Quadgop**.
((((Broomstick))))
Yes, so sorry to hear this.
I’m sorry. ((((Broomstick))))
Very sorry to hear this, and best wishes to your family.
I always felt a kinship with Broomstick, as we joined around the same time and both were dealing with husbands who had significant medical issues (and all that entailed personally, professionally/publicly, and financially). It breaks my heart to see this unfolding. I wish there were something that someone could do to make this easier for both of you.
My thoughts are with you.
So sorry to hear all this. ((Hugs))
Well damn. I hope his passing will be quick and without pain.
Damn. This sounds like what happened with my mother as she slipped away. The hospital did a good job of making her comfortable, I can only hope that Mr. Broomstick’s passing is as peaceful.
This is not the update any of us wanted to hear :(.
All the best to Broomstick & her husband.
So sorry Broomstick. What a horrible situation for you both.
I’m sorry, Broomstick. As healing is not a possible option, my wishes for as good a death as possible.
Broomstick’s husband did wake up yesterday, and was aware and talking and not in pain. His problems remain grave, but I am so grateful they have been able to share more quality time together.
Good news, even if temporary. I hope they can have as much pain-free, lucid time together as possible. Thanks for keeping us updated.
((Broomstick, Husband, and Qadgop))
Good news. I hope they have more such time together.
Broomstick, stay strong. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
Thanks, Qadgop.
((Broomstick))
My sister was able to come out from Buffalo for a few days which took some burden off me and let me get some rest. I still feel wrung-out and exhausted, but not completely exhausted.
Right now, due to some insurance issues, he’s not officially in hospice (don’t get me started on that… it’s been good up until end-of-life care. Maybe I’ll discuss that later.) but the hospital is treating him as if he is. He’s getting everything he needs to stay comfortable and not getting anything that does not lead to that goal. He’s safe and as comfortable as we can make him. He’s less and less verbal and sleeping more and more.
I’ve made all the arrangements I needed/could. Now we are waiting.