Broomstick, it feels like all too recently we went through this with my dad, who also had bladder (and kidney) cancer. You have my best thoughts with you. I’m glad your sister is there.
I just read through both this thread and your other thread.
I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this.
Please know that I’m listening.
(((((Broomstick)))))
Years and years ago, a friend of mine recommended a book called, “Final Gifts.” It was written by two hospice nurses, who had observed the passing of many patients. No matter what the person’s beliefs were (and some had none at all), every single patient seemed to make the same final journey.
These nurses used their experiences to inform new hospice patients and their family members of this journey, and this made the process much more comfortable to all.
Alas, this treasured book is out of print. I have gifted it to many, many people, and all were helped by it. I’m so glad I read it before I lost my parents. I don’t know if I would have survived the experience without its comfort.
Mister Broomstick has a “guide” with him now. He’s never alone, so please don’t begrudge yourself the time apart from him, to take care of your own needs.
May you take comfort and receive peace in your memories.
~VOW
“Final Gifts,” by Maggie Callahan and Patricia Kelley, is now available as a Kindle book. I think everyone should read it.
~VOW
Broomstick’s husband died at 11:20 am this morning.
He was not in pain, and he was not alone. She was with him at the end and his death was as peaceful as possible.
He was loved and will be missed.
I’m so sorry Broomstick.
Peace to you Broomstick. I’m sorry you had to go through such a horrible experience.
Thanks for passing the info along QtM and for being there for Broomstick.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Aw, jeez.
Also updated and back in print.
Thank you for letting us know, Qadgop.
My thoughts are with you, Broomstick.
Broomstick.
Sorry for your loss.
Broomstick, you have my most sincere condolences. I am very sorry for your loss.
My deepest sympathies for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
I’ve updated the title to let the board know.
My condolences to you Broomstick.
I am so sorry for your loss Broomstick.
((((Broomstick))))
I am genuinely sorry for your loss. I’m glad your husband was at peace at the end and was not alone.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Broomstick.
I’m sorry, Broomstick.
You both fought the good fight.
My deepest condolences, Broomstick.