My mom has cancer. Tell me I'll get through this

That’s an excellent idea! I’ve never heard of it. I’m going to get two copies, one for her and one for me.

That is a fantastic idea. Mrs Magill and I have letters in our safe that spell out a lot of things, but that book sounds like it covers a lot more bases.

The above link is to the book I mentioned. This happens to be Amazon but it can be found elsewhere as well.

This sounds like a must-have. Possible family prezzies. My mother would have thought this morbid. I think it’s considerate.

Mine is “ when I’m gone”.

Sure it would. But once done the first time keeping it up to date won’t be hard.

If you do it right. My mom passed away 10/21/22. I got ahold of her list of passwords. Some typed, some written with her 93 year old hand and not legible at all. Things crossed off with a sticky note on it.

Mostly repeated pages, but there where/are 13 - 8.5x11 pages. I’m still trying to sort through it and organize just her passwords.

The other stuff though was well organized. I have the POA the will is in order and all that stuff. She did that years ago.