So sorry to hear that running coach.
I am so terribly sorry, running coach.
Yes, it does. It’s like part of your brain holds onto hope even when the rest of your brain knows hope has no place there.
I know I also felt some relief, then guilt at my relief, then anger at my guilt at my relief, etc.
Try to be kind to yourself, forgiving, and patient.
So sorry to hear this. Whatever you need that we can provide in this time, we’re here.
Add me to the chorus. I’m truly sorry and never be afraid to reach out to any of us if you need it.
Never underestimate the power starting a thread that’s simply “I need to get this off my chest”.
I’m so sorry. 
running coach, I’m so sorry to hear about this; my condolences to you and yours.
I extend my deepest sympathies Running Coach. Please remember that you are not alone… We are always here for you.
Your memories of your wife and long marriage will always be a part of you. I can’t begin to imagine your sense of loss.
Best wishes.
I am so sorry, running coach.
Adding my condolences too, Coach.
I am so terribly sorry, running coach. You made a gut-wrenching decision but a heroic and honorable one, to fulfill your wife’s wishes.
I’ve seen people lose spouses after both relatively long illnesses and sudden, utterly unexpected deaths–and each comes with their own version of awfulness and shock; people who were blessed with decades and had to relearn life without their partner, and others whose time together was cut cruelly short, leaving a wreckage of unmet plans, promises and dreams. It all sucks.
My heart goes out to you, and everyone who loved your wife. Please be good to yourself and ask if you need anything we can offer. …Other than virtual hugs, which we already send you.
My heartfelt condolences, running coach.
This is awful news. I am so sorry.
Oh no!
You’re a good man, running coach. I hope you will be okay. I’m so sorry you have to go through this.
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and yours.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh, running coach, so sorry to hear and so great that you cherished your time together.
And the fun begins. I have to cancel/reduce some of our bills. Started with Vivint. Despite explaining the reasons, I got the standard retention pressure. :fuck that noise:
Finally shut her up with “It’s been barely ten hours, could you just cancel the service and be done with it?” I guess she got a clue I wasn’t going to cave.
Funny thing, she ended the call with “Have a good night.” It was 7:30 in the morning here. No accent so no idea where the call center is.
Offering my condolences, coach; be sure to make time for (and take care of) yourself.
running coach, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Losing a beloved spouse is a unique, awful trauma. You have my sincere condolences.
My best advice (that you didn’t ask for): Don’t be reticent to turn to the support your communities offer, whether family, friends or online mooks like us. It can really help.
My best to you.