I know you can’t help worrying, but a million to one your wife just spaced, or got temporarily lost. Believe me, it’s easy to do around Boston, where the road signs would have you believe you’re going north and south at the same time.
The LI to NH route (I use I-84 to I-495) without traffic is a good 6 hours. It’s longer if you take I-95. Given what time they left NYC, I’m gonna say they hit a load of rush hour traffic getting out of NY; And given what you’ve said about the missus, it probably hasn’t occured to her that you’re worried and waiting
Stay calm - find something to do to distract yourself. I think you’ll hear from them around 8: or 9: pm
We were taking a vacation with Ivylad’s family last year. We were all driving from Florida to a cabin in Gatlinburg, TN.
We left last, and were somewhat concerned when we found out we had arrived first. No one else was there. Of course, in the mountains, cell phone coverage is the shit, so we went to the cabin with the thought that if no one showed up we were going to have to drive back to FL, checking for accidents along the road.
They all showed up about three hours later. It turns out they had done some sightseeing along the way, and spent quite a bit of time at one of those roadside “Pan for Your Own Gold and Gems” places for the kids.
My MIL was quite cavalier about it, shrugging it off with, “I’m on vacation,” until I pointed out how frantic her son was, not knowing where they were or being unable to get ahold of them.
I hope your wife and kids are fine. They probably just stopped at Chuck E. Cheese or something.
My mom does this to me every time she travels. She moves at the speed of molasses, and it takes twice as long as it should for her to go somewhere. Last time she came to visit me, after she left, she went to visit my brother. A trip that took me about 4 hours took her about 9 hours (there was a major wrong turn in there somewhere, but how do you go that far without realizing you’re going the wrong way? ). And she never turns her cell phone on, even if I ask her to. She has a birthday coming up soon…maybe I should get her a chauffeur.
However…and I know you didn’t ask, but I am going to say it anyway…
This behavior from your wife is completely unacceptable. Not only is she your wife, and you are concerned for her well being while she is travelling, but they are YOUR KIDS! You should never be unduly concerned about the whereabouts of your kids because your wife decides to simply “make a day” in the city. You deserve a call. The deep dreadful feeling of not knowing where your kids are is not something that should be inflicted on you by your wife.
I once dated a girl who would get “distracted”. She would call me saying she was on the way to my house, then 3 hours later she would show up saying she had run into a friend, or she went shopping, or whatever. My BS meter was tripped on many occassions, and regardless of why she was unreachable and late, she never gave me the courtesy of a call. She knew I was worried when she did that, but it did not register high enough on her list of priorities to warrant a call. This chick was simply self absorbed and held me in little regard. All that mattered to her was that she was doing what she wanted to do at the moment, other people and future ramifications be damned.
I cannot fathom being placed in a similar situation where I could not find my kids because of my wife.
Not to upset you or anything man, but this girl had other “responsibility” issues like money and honesty among other things. I think you know what I am saying. Just be careful. If it sounds like BS and smells like BS, it probably is…BS.