How is a fence going to keep out an average cat? Our backyard is fenced in with a standard fence and we have stray and roaming cats aplenty. I see them merrily jumping up and walking along the fence top all the time. Unless you construct a 10’ tall fence (not approved in most residential areas) I don’t think it is going to matter. In cases like the OP’s where the cat is old, it would work, but most cats would still be able to get through. I guess putting up a fence “to keep out the cats” would never even occur to me.
Our dog chases roaming cats away but she is going to catch one some day I fear. I would feel terrible if our dog ever hurt or killed one but I also don’t want her to get scratched by an unknown cat, or for my 2 year old son to get bit or scratched either.
I wouldn’t hurt them but they really are a nuisance. They get in our son’s sandbox (we do have a cover for it now) and pee in the flowers, and get our dog riled up. The 2 that come around most often obviously are not strays, they are too well fed and groomed for that, but I don’t know who they belong to.
I agree that the neighbor was out of line, and you know the situation best. If you feel your neighbor hurt your cat on purpose, knowing it was your cat, and old, then he probably did. I just know that there are lots of cats in our neighborhood and I don’t recognize them all, even our neighbor’s. It does sound like they are stepping up and taking responsibility though. But being a pet owner myself I also agree that cats should be kept indoors and that it is the owner’s ultimate responsibility to keep their own pet safe. Like others have said, it looks like a minor mistake here (letting the cat out once, not habitually) was met with a big penalty. I hope your cat recovers fully and that you can get along with your neighbors.
