In a discussion here on whether people with children receive greater benefits than people without, SingleDad defended the decision to have children with the following phrase:
Here’s my issue (which has nothing to do with the discussion is springs from): why should I have any “loyalty to the human race”? Put another way, besides my own individual desire for self-preservation, why should I care about the long-term prospects for humanity?
Obviously, humans will one day become extinct. If it were revealed to me that this would naturally have occured 60 generations from now, but that, because of things we have done to the planet, we have shortened humanity’s tenure to 30 or 20 generations, I would have trouble mustering up any tears. In fact, if it were revealed today that every child born from now on would be completely and utterly sterile, I can’t say that I’d be too upset.
I’m not cynical about the inherent worth of humanity, nor a believer in any form of spiritual afterlife. I’m not trying to weasel out of recycling my garbage or driving a fuel-efficient vehicle. Nor am I looking to justify the fact that I’m not particularly interested in having children. I’m just not seeing why I should feel like my species is any more entitled to or worthy of any extended tenure (much less perpetual existence) on earth than any other species is.
I can accept the argument that people want to see their children be able to grow up and have a future and the ability to have children of their own, but that quickly starts to get very abstract. The “for our children” argument really only convinces me that people could justify a loyalty to the next two or three generations or so before it starts to get quite nebulous.
So what am I missing? SingleDad and others, why should I feel any loyalty to the human race? Am I just being nihilistic about all this?