Some things an adult male cannot do if he ever wants to be taken seriously
-Use the term “LOL”, no matter what circumstance
-Play videogames
-Update his facebook status once a day
-Respond to chain letters on email
-Read the horoscope
-Follow a soap-opera
-Call-in Vote for his favorite Pop Idol
-Be up to date with what celebrity is dating who
I also have to assume you apply this logic to women as well. What can’t women do if they want to be taken seriously? I hope we’re allowed to be gamers. Otherwise I’m in trouble.
Seriously, playing video games probably is a generational thing. If your list were labeled something like, “things that mark you as younger than 40”, it would make more sense. (FWIW, I’m in my fifties and have never played video games.)
When I was younger, there were similar sentiments expressed by men a generation older than me that no adult man (or “real” man) would wear sneakers with a suit, or use a blow dryer, or drive a Japanese car.
And I have to concur with Ike Witt: one of the things marking adulthood is reduced need for peer approval. So adults don’t generally make lists that castigate inconsequential things (like whether you play video games) as ‘uncool’, nor heed them.
Can’t speak for olives, but most of the married men I know still occasionally play video games. Getting married isn’t supposed to mean giving up every frivolous thing you enjoy.