Oh dear, I’ve rather a lot on my plate at the moment, so I’ll do a quick response for now.
First, I’d like to thank those Dopers what’ve shared their teaching/student experiences in this thread.
Second, I’d like to make clear that I don’t judge all students to be trifling. I understand that somedays folks can’t help but be late and/or unprepared. Shit happens. What I take issue with is students continuing to be rude and disrespectful.
Third, I’d like to say that it shouldn’t matter what level or what subject I teach. My rant involves issues of professionalism, responsibility, and respect. I do find it quite telling that some folks have the nerve to come up in my thread and deem me to be at fault for students’ lack of respect not only towards me, but towards their classmates who do care enough to come to class on time and be prepared. All of a sudden because I have a Southern accent–and I’m damn proud of it and my Southern roots–and can and do code switch with the best of them, I’m ignorant and and my perspective judged unworthy of respect by some of y’all Dopers what don’t know me from Eve.
I’m at a loss, I tell you. But, I just don’t have time to give the appropriate folks the virtual spankings they so rightly deserve :mad:, this being the Pit and all. Still, I will say that this trend to blame the teacher for the irresponsible behavior of students is exactly the kind of trifling behavior that I detest, and that forces many dedicated teachers like Gazelle from Hell’s waitress, Holly out of the profession. It’s what I mean when I complain–as I so often do–about how many teachers don’t get support from the administration they work for nor from parents.
I’m not saying that teachers are perfect, nor am I saying that there aren’t some teachers out there who are not doing a good job teaching. We are all human, and even the best teachers make mistakes. However, what I take issue with is the fact that many times folks just find it easier to blame the teacher, when the folks who need to be held accountable for their acts are the students and to some extent the parents.
I am a teacher. I’m passionate about what I do–that is why I am not working at Burger King or waiting tables like poor Holly–and I have high expectations of my students. I do not think that I am being unreasonable in asking students to meet me halfway. If you think about it, being on time and being prepared are behaviors that most jobs require of their workers. Why can I not expect the same behavior from students who opt to take my class, particularly when students go to school presumably to get a job someday? Don’t you think that the sooner students learn how to be professional, the better things will be for them in the long run? Going to school ain’t never really been just about book learning. It’s the truly intelligent ones what learn that. Some, like WhiteLightning, only have to get spanked once to figure things out. Then there’s others, what may not learn at all. Oh, WhiteLightning, don’t worry. I do have penalties for students what can’t be on time and prepared.
Oh, and Spit, sugar, thank you for defending my honor.
You’re right. I ain’t stuffy, nor do I stuff my shirt. 