Respectfully, you’ve actually touched on exactly what is so infuriating about the modern GOP, and I’m not even sure you saw it.
Between 2016 and 2020, the GOP grew the deficit. They slashed taxes (for the rich and big businesses permanently, for the middle class and poor temporarily), and continued to spend more money every year, raised the debt ceiling 4 times, and at no point did they utter a single concern about spending money like a toddler with a credit card.
But now, all of a sudden, it’s a big enough deal to shut down the government and stop paying soldiers.
It’s the hypocrisy. Look at how McConnell refused to do his Constitutional duty and advise, let alone consent, to a Supreme Court justice, but pushed through a hyper partisan Justice in record time in very similar circumstances.
The GOP doesn’t govern. They have been using their time in office to destroy how the government functions, and they are doing it intentionally. See the Post Office, which the GOP has been trying to get rid of for decades, so they pass laws making the USPS insolvent due to insanely strict future budgeting obligations, then scream about that insolvency and use it as justification to change how the USPS functions.
Look at how the Democrats handled Al Franken, compared to how the GOP handled… Trump, Gaetz, Kavanaugh, Moore, etc. etc.
The GOP lies, constantly, about things. MTG goes on talk shows and talks about how the Democrats have a “Radical Socialist Agenda”. Which is not true. But they say it all the time. The Democrats don’t do that, certainly not even close to the same scale.
The GOP in Congress impeached Clinton, a purely political move. Thankfully the Senate did not take up that cause.
The GOP refused to even allow the idea of punishing Trump for his abuses of power, his election interference, or inciting an effort to overthrow the Democratic process and institute a dictatorship.
The Democrats have flaws, lord knows, but you are comparing apples and cats. They are so far apart in levels of bad that it’s insane that anyone who still tries the “both sides are the same” can do so with a straight face.