That isn’t what you are doing tho. You are ascribing beliefs to people that they may not have and then judging them for what you think their beliefs might be.
And you’re whole “silence speaks volumes” thing is misapplied, since you cherry pick when silence means something and when it does not. Also, you mistake the fact that you did not hear something as also indicating that nothing was said.
I think you should sit back and critically examine some of your positions here and how you are defending them because you aren’t coming across in the manner you intend and frankly it seems to be because your positions aren’t all that well reasoned or thought out. They seem to be coming from irrational fears rather than rational considerations: