[QUOTE=Little Nemo]
I agree with Moto; a lot of times you hear about people in some crisis simply sitting there and letting themselves be swept under. A lot of people are afraid to take any initiative - they may recognize there’s an emergency but their response is to wait for somebody else to tell them what to do. Ironically, this lack of initiative is worse in a crowd - a person alone in the room will realize they have to take action on their own while individuals in a crowd will wait for somebody else to take charge.
Personally, I work in an environment where emergencies happen on a regular basis and I’m the person in charge (albeit often not the person at the immediate scene of the emergency) - so I’ve learned how to jump in and take charge. And I’ve noticed that in non-job related situations (emergency or otherwise) I’m usually more willing to take initiative than other people are.
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I am going to try to word this very carefully because this is a highly emotionally charged event, and thread, and I don’t want to have my intent misunderstood.
I agree with everything that Little Nemo said here. I am a retired E.M.T. with 6 years of EMS experience, and (unfortunately) first responder experience on Sept. 11th, 2001. This topic came up a week ago when I flew to Vegas for work. I was in the emergency row, which I always ask for due to my height. The person sitting next to me said " yes, I will help" when asked to verbally respond by the flight attendant but then as we took of, she offered the thoughts that basically she wouldn’t know what to do.
It is not some heroic thing to know what to do, or to want to gain the knowledge so you know what to do. Some folks are able to quickly process incoming information that is distressing and move towards a logical and safe response. Some are not. It’s not a criticism. I do clearly recognize when I am out of my element and am very willing to be a follower NOT a leader if it is the safest thing to do.
For those willing to take that initiative, we already know how we go through our lives- looking for exits, assessing situations, looking around. For those of us who are not of a predisposition to take initiative in a crisis moment, I would ask you to do the following: In the adrenaline-pumped panicked heat of the moment, try to force yourself to do as you are asked to do by those individuals who by action and word are making it clear that they are able to assess and handle the situation better than you.
Leaders are invaluable. Cowboys raise the body count, to be blunt. If I feel I can lead, I will do so- immediately coordinating with those around me who are similarly trained, because we are all trained to immediately work as a team- even if we have never met before.
Mass panic is it’s own danger. An airplane landing badly skidding towards the trees is out of control. The moment it strikes the trees and breaks up and skids to a stop, those first few moments will decide of a pile of bodies are found near exits or if most folks get out alive, if not completely intact.
Simiarly this mass shooting event we have all mourned for the last week. This is about a mindset and assessing danger and response time. I do NOT surround myself with weapons, I am a pacifist. My choices are predicated upon looking around, making use of all available assets extremely rapidly and working with strangers to get a positive result. If I witness a car accident and I can respond with my hands, I immediately take one witness to take notes, another to use their cell phone to call 911 and repeat what I am telling them, and so on. You use the assets on hand.
In a school or office, that would mean if I heard gunshots I would not wait to be told there was shooting going on. I’d attempt to secure the door and then communicate with the outside world. Every situation is different of course, this is real life and not a scripted drama.
Let me beat the poster to this by saying that it is very easy for me to sit and type all of this out in the calm of my own home, and another thing for me to do as I say I would. Like Little Nemo and other First Responders on this board, I have a mindset that lent itself to proper training and approaching a crisis with a focused mindset.
Blind panic is normal and expected, the fight or flight response is an animal instinct and I’m as much an animal as anyone else. The differences are that some folks funnel the fight instinct into positive and rapid responses designed to protect or help others. Some folks fight with violent force. Some folks freeze. Some flee. It is the bell curve of human responses.
The lesson is this: do as you are told by those who have asserted a clear understanding and authority in the moment. It may well save your life, or prevent unneeded injuries.
Cartooniverse, New York State E.M.T. (Ret.)