Online gaming ethics and mores...

Yeah, you’re still failing to understand this conversation on a pretty fundamental level. And I’m not sure there’s any point in trying to explain it to you again.

And I’M not sure that there is any point to explaining to you that fake characters in a fake game in a fake world are NOT the same as REAL people in the real world no matter how much you want them to be so.

You said you spent 30 years trying to explain your point to people. Maybe there is something wrong with the point you are trying to make?

Since that doesn’t actually resemble my argument in any way, that’s probably a good thing.

Really? It seems to me that you think people should treat computer characters the same way as they treat real people.

Maybe I don’t know what your argument is then. It seems like you equate behavior in a computer game with behavior in the real world and that the ethical/moral behavior we show in the real world should be the same behavior we show in a made up world, with made up characters.

Is that not it? If not, then I guess I don’t know what your argument is.

Nope. I think people should treat people who play video games the way they treat people in real life.

I think we’ve established that pretty well.

Different people.

Well, maybe you should give up then. Either your point is faulty, or you don’t have the ability to get your point across. My guess is the former.

I agree. Good thing I wasn’t talking about that then.

I think you can play evil characters in D&D and shit like that but just being a griefer in a MMO kinda means that the griefer is probably a bit of a dick that enjoys making other people miserable.

Unfortunately game designers design games this way because you will spend $20 for revenge on that asshole who camped your corpse for 7 hours where you wouldn’t spend $5 for a pleasant gaming experience.

Are you shitting me? Because I haven’t educated everybody on the planet as to what roleplaying games are, because from time to time, even after thirty years of talking with people about it, I still sometimes meet people at parties who ask me, “So what’s the point of Dungeons and Dragons,” I must have a faulty point?

Does that even make sense to yourself?

You mentioned earlier having had a few beers. Would you mind revisiting this line of posts in the morning?

No, that’s a bad thing, because that’s literally the only thing I’ve been talking about in this whole thread. So if you haven’t been talking about that, you haven’t been responding to a single thing I’ve been saying this entire time.

Is there a point to D & D besides having fun? Seems like you could just say “We have fun playing make believe” and that would end all arguments.

No matter what I believed, I sure as hell wouldn’t spend 30 years trying to educate people about it.

Good lord. Revisit this in the morning, and if you still need an explanation, I’ll see what I have for you.

Good, so you don’t think people should treat an online world the same as they treat the real world? You should have, I don’t know, maybe mentioned that before you said ethics and morals are the same in an on-line world as they are in the real world.

How about you explain what is so important that you would spend 30 years trying to explain it to people?

Maybe I should wait 30 years for you to do so.

I don’t think you two should game together, IMHO. And I don’t think I’m starting trouble by saying that.

Its technically possible that you two are closer to agreeing than it seems here… and that you both would discover this in-game… but it doesn’t look like it from here.

I played as a LG type and I was so naive. Were you one of the infamous Chesapeake shard orcs?

Different actions in game have different targets. If I pick your avatar’s pocket it’s not a personal attack on the player. If I call your character a real life racial slur and your character is a gnome, for example, you can assume it’s directed at the player. And that can get one banned as it violates the rules in WoW.

Modern MMOs usually give players ample warning and choice. No one in WoW gets PvPed without ample warning or consent aside from one or two areas that are free for all.