Just … 
one of my friends has gone through this loss.
I am a guest; but I feel for you merely commenting on this, I feel your loss and I have been with you spiritually, I have experienced that which you are going through.
I am with you. Spiritually, physically, and in any other way. Take strength in those who are with you and do no give up on the idea of life. Go on and try again. Love life no matter what is thrown in your path and provide for that which you can. Love for life.
So sorry.
TokyoPlayer and TokyoWife, you have my sympathies. I’m very sad, thinking of your loss. I know nothing I can say will make this any easier, but you have my very best wishes for getting through this.
I hope you find a source of strength and peace.
My deepest sympathies to you and your wife.
:: sobs ::
There is nothing I can say that hasn’t already been said. But… damn.
That was the most beautiful eulogy I’ve ever heard. And no less than Mi-chan deserves.
I hope you and Tokyowife will be ok, in time.
If you can thus love with such poetry the child-to-be that was scarcely more than the shadow of a dream, how I envy the child that shall be when the time is right.
Grieve, but hope. The seasons turn, and spring will come when it will come.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You and those you love are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace be with you both {{{hugs}}}
Thanks everyone for your kind words. It means so much that people think of and pray for us both now and through our ordeal with Ian.
Putting my thoughts in writing has helped release stress and given me a task to do.
Today was a long day. I’m tired. No, not tired; exhausted and will go to bed soon. But tomorrow is a new day. It is spring in Tokyo, a month early, and we too will find our spring. Our love grows stronger day by day, hurt by hurt and experience by experience.
Though I would give anything to never had had this pain, I can never imagine going though this with anyone but my wife. We’ve been together for a short 15 months, but it’s a lifetime already. I can no longer see how to live without her by my side.
What a beautiful woman, inside and out. Such wisdom, such warmth. If I must cry, then I will cry with her and our tears flow together and cure us both.
We are a family and are in love. We will not only survive but thrive.
Your writing is so beautiful. Strength shines through it.
I am so sorry to hear your news. Sending supporting thoughts your way!
Strength. But only when you are ready to be strong - and you will. For your little one.
Your own spring will come.
So very very sorry.
My heart-felt condolences, and my thoughts and prayers for you, your wife, and Mi-Chan and Ian, join those of the others who have posted here. I’m so very sorry for your loss, TokyoPlayer.
I am sorry for your loss, Tokyoplayer. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
TokyoPlayer , No words could better express your pain, and love for your child than the ones you put here.
I’ll keep you and TokyoWife in my prayers, and know that someday there will be another Spring for you.
My condolences to you and your wife, TokyoPlayer. I am so very sorry.
I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your wife will be in my thoughts today.