If I could remember the etymology, I could just remember the proper spelling. Actually, though, that separate and apart link might help.
I go through phases with ‘separate’. It just looks right with an ‘e’. Also, ‘maintenance’, but that one hasn’t given me any trouble in a few years.
I figure I spell things tolerably well. I hate when I make a big, long, overly-intellectuallized post and then see spelling mistakes in it, but mostly I get over it quickly and figure that the meaning is clear, and really that is all I hope to get across. Forgive us our tresspasses.
I read a book when I was about 10 that had a spelling bee as one of its chapters, and they gave the mnemonic device that ‘separate’ has ‘a rat’ in it. I can’t believe how well that one glued itself to my brain.
While i’m lucky enough that spelling has always been one of my strong points, i can certainly understand how people get “separate” wrong, especially given that the verb and adjectival forms are pronounced so differently:
Pedantic? Yes, that’s me. I’m a pedant and I’m proud of it.
So as long as I’m here, let me hit on my other major pet peeve.
The word which one might utter in order to stop the progress of a galloping horse? Whoa.
W-H-O-A
It is not “woah.” If it were “woah” it would rhyme with “Noah” (you know, the guy with the ark) and would then be a two-syllable word. Misspelling a common four letter word is a sign of such sloppiness that this is a red flag for me to disregard just about anything else in a person’s post.
YES!! Exactly. This is why this one gives me so much trouble. I’m also a generally strong speller, and I was completely mortified to learn that separate and separate are spelled the same way! What I can’t understand is this: I know wound (past tense of wind) and wound (an injury) are pronounced differently, but I’ve never had any trouble with THAT spelling. For that matter - wind itself. You wind your watch when the wind blows. And read (present tense and past tense) - two different pronunciations, one spelling. So WHY does “separate” in particular seem so durn WRONG to me??
Desperate comes from the Latin Desparatus, “out of hope” – if you’ve taken any other Romance languages, think of their words for “hope” which all pretty much follow the form “esper”. If we take “esper” to mean hope and “Dis” to mean “without” then you’ve got a cute little anagram:
Desperate is / dis-esper-ate
Because “esper” is much more phonetically intuitive than the word as a whole, remembering the root spelling eventually helps.
…but how can you not know how to spell mnemonic? Just think of the first “M” as someone "Umm"ing while trying to remember something: