Before I go into the meat of the debate, I want to point out that I’m only talking about pacifists who’s philosophy is ‘using force to solve problems (on a personal level) is wrong’. Specifically, pacifists who’s philosophy is basically “don’t start fights” or “I’m opposed to waging war” are not what I’m talking about here, only pacifists who decry the use of force in self-defense or to solve other problems between people.
“Violence is never the answer” sounds nice, and even though I don’t agree with it I would argue that someone was certainly good who sincerely believed in that and was willing to accept the consequences of living by that philosophy. If I had ever encountered such a person, I would consider them a noble idealist and would respect them for having strong principles and sticking to them despite the bad consequences.
However, I’ve never encountered such a person in real life. All of the people who would describe themselves as pacifists of this sort do not actually live by the philosophy they espouse. While quite willing to say that other people are wrong for advocating violence (in self-defense for example) with an obvious smugness over their superior philosophy, they are not willing to actually give up violence as a solution to problems, they just won’t get their own hands dirty. In all cases that I’ve seen, these self-described pacifists were quite willing to call in the police, who use violence, to protect themselves. Rather than simply give up a stolen stereo, or try track down the thief and non-violently persuade him to return it, they’d call the cops and let the police get the property back.
Since I am not aware of any pacifists willing to actually give up violence but plenty who are willing to say that they have and hire agents to actually do the dirty work, I conclude that pacifists (of the type I specified) are simply cowardly hypocrites who are merely unwilling to get their hands dirty, and don’t wish to live by the philosophy they advocate.